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sanfranbeat
Oct 16, 2012, 07:24 AM
I met someone a few months ago and although it was a short relationship things moved pretty fast. It became the perfect relationship with everything going right.
Dates were great, times were great, intimacy was great.
BUt then suddenly a curveball gets thrown and someone steals her credit card info. And it just so happened to happen on a night I was with her( I was up and she was already in bed). She lost trust in me just like that and I didn't do it. For some online sites I would never touch.
Anyway she brought up that there were some incompatibilities that were realized suddenly on our last date and all via email and then I never heard from her again.

Its been only a couple weeks since. I sent a couple texts and one email in reply one and two days after just to clear some thoughts without aggravating the situation.

But is there anything I can do? Its upsetting being accused of something I didn't do, especially since all I did was give. Given much more than was taken from her for sure.

Any advice would be appreciated because I've been dumped before but this situation is totally different.

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 16, 2012, 09:05 AM
Why would you even want to get back in touch with someone who would accuse you of such an action. Forget about her and move on, you deserve much better.

sanfranbeat
Oct 16, 2012, 09:20 AM
Totally agree and thank you, its great to hear that from someone neutral.
SHe obviously has some issues from the past but it just bothered me that I had to be told by email and not to my face. Of course I was pissed but I still try to talk out thoughts rationally and then move on no matter whom its with. SOme people don't.

C0bra_M3nace
Oct 16, 2012, 09:43 AM
A lot of people have a hard time expressing their feelings in person, I'm guilty of it. For now, just accept that it wasn't mean to be and that you deserve much better.

Jimmy78
Oct 16, 2012, 10:55 AM
Life is to damn short for crap like this, leave her in the rear view and keep it moving.