I had sex for the first time with a guy I've dated off-n-on for a long time. Do many people told me its going to hurt so bad so I expected it. It didn't hurt bad at all at first it did but I didn't bleed either. But he fingered me after and said he stuck four fingers in my vag. I don't know if that is true honostly and he said I was looser than a whore he had ed. I didn't think I was loose so to make sure I fingered myself a day after and I only could stick two fingers in. He has a nice size penis so I I don't know maybe I am.

Lets say... unless you were born with a defect... babies can come out of there for any woman.

Babies are a LOT bigger than a guys schong. Just saying.

And personally... I'd have sent him packing...

So you're dating and had sex with a guy that compared you to a whore... hmmmm... to me, that seems the bigger issue than whether your vigina may be loose.

Well I almost believe I am. I ride horses and they say people who ride horses it can cause girls to have looser viginas?

Well I almost believe I am. I ride horses and they say people who ride horses it can cause girls to have looser viginas??

How old are you? Because that sounds like something you would here on a Junior high school playground.

And incidentally I dated a girl that had not only a horse most of her life... she also had a child and it WASN'T true.

I am 17. But I am really serious about this question. Because if I really do have a loose vagina I need to start kegel excersizes

I am 17. But I am really serious about this question. Because if I really do have a loose vagina I need to start kegel excersizes

You don't NEED to have a loose one to do the exercises... they can only help and not hurt...

Sounds like you chose a looser douchebag to lose your virginity to.

My first lover was 9 inches long, no small tomatoes. Even after that, and 2 kids, my husband, who is average sized, does not find me loose.

I wouldn't let this guy get into your head. I'm sure you're perfectly normal, you just need to be a lot more picky about the guys you sleep with. This guy is a jerk.

And with that said... the Tightest woman I ever dated (before I married someone else)... was a woman with 4 kids...

And she didn't have any surgical help... dump this loser and find someone that has something approaching a clue... and common sense. Not to mention respect. This one is already a world class jerk in his minimal time on the planet...

I don't know if this is true but I've heard if you stick one finger in and you can grasp it , its not loose if you can't feel your vaginal walls grasping your finger then you might be a bit loose. But just do your exercsizes and you'll be fine. And you should NEVER talk to him again that was too far and beyond rude.

You need to chose sex partners a lot better, this guy was a jerk, Mature people do not tell others negative sexual things.

And of course after enough time and foreplay he can get four fingers in,

I am sorry, not being chosey with who you sleep with may make you one, but not what he was saying