Mahshid84
Aug 3, 2012, 11:47 PM
Hi
I'm seeing a guy for 2 years, honestly I'm in love with him, he loves me too but this isn't enough as you know.
There is a big problem here : He doesn't want to marry but I do. My Mom says if there's no future in this relationship, you have to let it go, but I can't. On the other hand, he says, I would do anything for you to make you happy, but don't want me marry you, because I don't want to. He is so committed, so kind, so caring, so supportive, but he hates marriage. I think he's afraid of that.
I don't know what to do! Do I have to wait or let it go? I'd been in many relationships before and now I know that he's the love of my life. If I give up on him, there's no guarantee that I would find Mr. Right, on the other hand if I wait to see what happens, who knows what will happen...
By the way he's 37 and I'm 29. We both are educated.
I'm seeing a guy for 2 years, honestly I'm in love with him, he loves me too but this isn't enough as you know.
There is a big problem here : He doesn't want to marry but I do. My Mom says if there's no future in this relationship, you have to let it go, but I can't. On the other hand, he says, I would do anything for you to make you happy, but don't want me marry you, because I don't want to. He is so committed, so kind, so caring, so supportive, but he hates marriage. I think he's afraid of that.
I don't know what to do! Do I have to wait or let it go? I'd been in many relationships before and now I know that he's the love of my life. If I give up on him, there's no guarantee that I would find Mr. Right, on the other hand if I wait to see what happens, who knows what will happen...
By the way he's 37 and I'm 29. We both are educated.