Aye guys, so I'm 18 and I've had a foot fetish since I was about 10. I've always had this attraction to girls/womens feet. I know this sounds weird, but it's the truth. I know that feet are the most common fetish. I've barely told anyone (not even my family). I did tell my best friend, she thought it was weird but she told me she herself has a shoe fetish. She sometimes lets me give her foot messages, and I get really turned on. Sometimes I feel like most women would think I'm strange because of this, or even think I'm some pervert.

I for one hate having my toes sucked during foreplay

Are you kidding? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
Just to get a foot rub!! WE LOVE IT!! Bring it on dude!!

Are you kidding?? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
just to get a foot rub!!! WE LOVE IT!!!! Bring it on dude!!!

I have preferences, that's my prerogative, toe sucking is not one of them as I said. I can have foot rubs any time I want.

No not kidding.

I have preferences, thats my prerogative, toe sucking is not one of them as I said. I can have foot rubs any time I want.

No not kidding.

Wasn't talking to you, was answering asker's question.

Wasn't talking to you, was answering asker's question.

Then you should have made that perfectly clear by quoting the OP. then giving your answer.

Anyone on this forum has a perfect right to answer under any question in a thread.

No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
Does this help?

Are you kidding?? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
just to get a foot rub!!! WE LOVE IT!!!! Bring it on dude!!!


I don't know what circle you travel in, but this is not my experience. I, for one, have never traded sex for anything. Anything. That includes gifts.

I can't imagine having to "bribe" my husband/boyfriend to rub my feet - or do anything else, for that matter.

And it works the other way - he doesn't use sex to "bribe" me to do anything.

No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
Does this help?


I think looking and being obsessed (or finding feet to be a turn on) are two different things. I don't know any man who looks at a woman's feet first -

It is one of the most common fetish. And some women will think it is strange, other will be OK, and some will be great with it. It depends on who much and how it effects, if you spend 2 hours doing feet and nothing else, they will not be real happy.

A lot depends on how into your fetish you are. Anything carried to extreme can make others uncomfortable.

Everyone is an individual and will respond according to their likes and dislikes and how you treat them. As long as you remember that the females you are meeting and getting involved with are humans and get to know their minds as well as their feet, they will probably not think of you as anything other than an interesting person.

You don't have to announce your fetish to every one. But when you get involved with someone being open and communicating will make you seem like less of a 'pervert' to your partner and yourself.

Keep in mind that some women do not like having their feet touched for a variety of reasons. Others have foot fetishes, too. But you won't know unless you talk to them. This is why I recommend communicating.

Best of luck for the future.

Thanks guys for the replies. And one thing I've never understood: why do a lot of women hate feet more than boobs, or their butts for that matter?

Thanks guys for the replies. And one thing I've never understood: why do a lot of women hate feet more than boobs, or their butts for that matter?


"Women?" I can't answer for all women. I don't know that "women" hate feet. I can only speak for myself, what I like and I don't like. My idea of sexual pleasure is not having someone stick his tongue in my ear. Same with sucking on my toes. All women? I have no idea.

Some "women" love oral sex, giving or receiving. Others don't. That doesn't mean that the entire female ("woman") population feels strongly one way or the other.

I walk around on my feet. I don't walk around on my "boobs" (your choice of a word) or my butt. That's reason number two.

The fact that I don't want you to masturbate over my feet doesn't mean I don't like feet. I means I don't like you masturbating over my feet.

It isn't that 'I' hate feet, I love my feet, I love pampering them with pedicures; I dislike having my toes used in foreplay. My boobs, well, I don't mind them, nor my butt. They are part of my anatomy.

OP sure has a strange outlook about what women like and dislike.

No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
Does this help?

Really, I would have thought men look at boobs first. In fact I dislike having my boobs addressed instead of my face.

Really, I would have thought men look at boobs first. In fact I dislike having my boobs addressed instead of my face.


I have learned to say "my eyes are up here."

And, yes, OP does seem to have problems involving the women in his life.

I love my feet

I don't care for it because I don't care for my feet.

I love my feet

- And so your advice is..

True, true. The way I see it... what ever floats your boat! Feet are just another part of the body. I've done some research on foot fetishism. It was interesting to find out that people with foot fetishes (myself included) have an overlap of nerves in their brain. I guess feet are right next to the reproductive system on the map in our brains. In my case, my arousal for arousal overlaps onto feet. I guess that's why I find some women have really attractive feet.

True, true. The way I see it... what ever floats your boat! Feet are just another part of the body. I've done some research on foot fetishism. It was interesting to find out that people with foot fetishes (myself included) have an overlap of nerves in their brain. I guess feet are right next to the reproductive system on the map in our brains. In my case, my arousal for arousal overlaps onto feet. I guess that's why I find some women have really attractive feet.


Please post your research about the feet and the reproductive system.

Please post your research about the feet and the reproductive system.

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This type of qualification is not necessary; please supply a website, or link to your research. I, or no one else will open the link you provided.

this type of qualification is not necessary; please supply a website, or link to your research. I, or no one else will open the link you provided.


Note that the Doctor's specialty is sexual deviants - he appears in defense of every pedophile, etc. in which an Attorney can afford him.

I don't find him to be a neutral party.

I want to see someone who is not a psychologist telling me that feet and sexual drive (or whatever) are "next to each other" in the human brain.

It is one of the most common fetish. And some women will think it is strange, other will be ok, and some will be great with it. it depends on who much and how it effects, if you spend 2 hours doing feet and nothing else, they will not be real happy.

I agree with you and I said earlier I love my feet : not only because I find them sexy, They are also very useful ,taking me where I want, dancing , swimming and moving with my mood ,but sorry I am not obsessed by feet. Obsession is not my forte...

Note that the Doctor's specialty is sexual deviants - he appears in defense of every pedophile, etc., in which an Attorney can afford him.

I don't find him to be a neutral party.

I want to see someone who is not a psychologist telling me that feet and sexual drive (or whatever) are "next to each other" in the human brain.

Yes, he does seem like a pervert or in defense of perverts. I've read articles online that mainly say the samething, but I don't remember them so it's worthless. Anyway, sorry if I creeped you or anyone else out. It wasn't my intention. I'm not a pervert.

Yes, he does seem like a pervert or in defense of perverts. I've read articles online that mainly say the samething, but I don't remember them so it's worthless. Anyway, sorry if I creeped you or anyone else out. It wasn't my intention. I'm not a pervert.


I'm not "creeped" out -

All right good. Lol, some people get offended/creeped out easily. Haha.

Alright good. Lol, some people get offended/creeped out easily. Haha.

No I am not creeped out either; just keep your dialogue coming and we will deal with it :)

True, true. The way I see it... what ever floats your boat! Feet are just another part of the body. I've done some research on foot fetishism. It was interesting to find out that people with foot fetishes (myself included) have an overlap of nerves in their brain. I guess feet are right next to the reproductive system on the map in our brains. In my case, my arousal for arousal overlaps onto feet. I guess that's why I find some women have really attractive feet.


So you rub the feet of female acquaintainces, get turned on (your own admission) and then what happens?

People with foot fetishes have an overlap in the nerves in their brains? I need more info on that, for sure.

I don't know what "my arousal for arousal overlaps into feet" means.

So you rub the feet of female acquaintainces, get turned on (your own admission) and then what happens?

People with foot fetishes have an overlap in the nerves in their brains? I need more info on that, for sure.

I don't know what "my arousal for arousal overlaps into feet" means.

I've only rubbed the feet of one woman, she's my best friend. She's the only friend I've told about my footfetish. People are mean, and would think I'm some freak. Trust me, they're jerks. But, yes, I do get turned on when I rub her feet. It's hard to describe why, because I'm not exactly sure why myself.
Also, that's what I've read. It says the people who find feet sexually attractive have overlapping nerves from the genitalia that causes the attraction. I'm not sure exactly, I'm not an expert. Lol. I hope this at least made it a bit more clearer.

I've only rubbed the feet of one woman, she's my bestfriend. She's the only friend I've told about my footfetish. People are mean, and would think I'm some freak. Trust me, they're jerks. But, yes, I do get turned on when I rub her feet. It's hard to describe why, because I'm not exactly sure why myself.
Also, that's what I've read. It says the people who find feet sexually attractive have overlapping nerves from the genitalia that causes the attraction. I'm not sure exactly, I'm not an expert. Lol. I hope this at least made it a bit more clearer.


So you get turned on and then the mood passes, you go home and masturbate, something else?

I've read all sorts of things that "prove" all sorts of other things. That doesn't mean those things are true. For example, someone could search out this thread and quote you as an expert.

I've read all sorts of things that "prove" all sorts of other things. That doesn't mean those things are true. For example, someone could search out this thread and quote you as an expert.

True, true. You've got me there. It all could be a load of crap, or there could be some truth in it. Personally though, I don't really care what causes my foot fetish. It's here, and it always will be. I'll just deal with it like I usually do.. it's not like it's ruining my life at all. If and when I do get into a "romantic" relationship with a woman, I guess I'll let her know then. I probably shouldn't tell her right away. Lol!