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    Aug 2, 2012, 03:53 PM
    Are women turned off by guys with foot-fetishes?
    Aye guys, so I'm 18 and I've had a foot fetish since I was about 10. I've always had this attraction to girls/womens feet. I know this sounds weird, but it's the truth. I know that feet are the most common fetish. I've barely told anyone (not even my family). I did tell my best friend, she thought it was weird but she told me she herself has a shoe fetish. She sometimes lets me give her foot messages, and I get really turned on. Sometimes I feel like most women would think I'm strange because of this, or even think I'm some pervert.
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    Aug 2, 2012, 04:27 PM
    I for one hate having my toes sucked during foreplay
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    Aug 3, 2012, 10:12 PM
    Are you kidding? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
    Just to get a foot rub!! WE LOVE IT!! Bring it on dude!!
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    Aug 4, 2012, 04:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by BethVader View Post
    Are you kidding?? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
    just to get a foot rub!!! WE LOVE IT!!!! Bring it on dude!!!
    I have preferences, that's my prerogative, toe sucking is not one of them as I said. I can have foot rubs any time I want.

    No not kidding.
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    Aug 4, 2012, 11:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    I have preferences, thats my prerogative, toe sucking is not one of them as I said. I can have foot rubs any time I want.

    No not kidding.
    Wasn't talking to you, was answering asker's question.
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    Aug 5, 2012, 09:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by BethVader View Post
    Wasn't talking to you, was answering asker's question.
    Then you should have made that perfectly clear by quoting the OP. then giving your answer.

    Anyone on this forum has a perfect right to answer under any question in a thread.
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    Aug 5, 2012, 01:07 PM
    No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
    Does this help?
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    Aug 5, 2012, 01:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by BethVader View Post
    Are you kidding?? Most women have to bribe their husbands/boyfriends with blowjobs
    just to get a foot rub!!! WE LOVE IT!!!! Bring it on dude!!!

    I don't know what circle you travel in, but this is not my experience. I, for one, have never traded sex for anything. Anything. That includes gifts.

    I can't imagine having to "bribe" my husband/boyfriend to rub my feet - or do anything else, for that matter.

    And it works the other way - he doesn't use sex to "bribe" me to do anything.
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    Aug 5, 2012, 01:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Savanitta View Post
    No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
    Does this help?

    I think looking and being obsessed (or finding feet to be a turn on) are two different things. I don't know any man who looks at a woman's feet first -
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    Aug 5, 2012, 01:19 PM
    It is one of the most common fetish. And some women will think it is strange, other will be OK, and some will be great with it. It depends on who much and how it effects, if you spend 2 hours doing feet and nothing else, they will not be real happy.
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    Aug 5, 2012, 01:31 PM
    A lot depends on how into your fetish you are. Anything carried to extreme can make others uncomfortable.

    Everyone is an individual and will respond according to their likes and dislikes and how you treat them. As long as you remember that the females you are meeting and getting involved with are humans and get to know their minds as well as their feet, they will probably not think of you as anything other than an interesting person.

    You don't have to announce your fetish to every one. But when you get involved with someone being open and communicating will make you seem like less of a 'pervert' to your partner and yourself.

    Keep in mind that some women do not like having their feet touched for a variety of reasons. Others have foot fetishes, too. But you won't know unless you talk to them. This is why I recommend communicating.

    Best of luck for the future.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 10:22 AM
    Thanks guys for the replies. And one thing I've never understood: why do a lot of women hate feet more than boobs, or their butts for that matter?
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    Aug 6, 2012, 10:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by johannsson35 View Post
    Thanks guys for the replies. And one thing I've never understood: why do a lot of women hate feet more than boobs, or their butts for that matter?

    "Women?" I can't answer for all women. I don't know that "women" hate feet. I can only speak for myself, what I like and I don't like. My idea of sexual pleasure is not having someone stick his tongue in my ear. Same with sucking on my toes. All women? I have no idea.

    Some "women" love oral sex, giving or receiving. Others don't. That doesn't mean that the entire female ("woman") population feels strongly one way or the other.

    I walk around on my feet. I don't walk around on my "boobs" (your choice of a word) or my butt. That's reason number two.

    The fact that I don't want you to masturbate over my feet doesn't mean I don't like feet. I means I don't like you masturbating over my feet.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 11:15 AM
    It isn't that 'I' hate feet, I love my feet, I love pampering them with pedicures; I dislike having my toes used in foreplay. My boobs, well, I don't mind them, nor my butt. They are part of my anatomy.

    OP sure has a strange outlook about what women like and dislike.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 11:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Savanitta View Post
    No, most of the men I know look at women feet first.
    Does this help?
    Really, I would have thought men look at boobs first. In fact I dislike having my boobs addressed instead of my face.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 11:19 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    Really, I would have thought men look at boobs first. In fact I dislike having my boobs addressed instead of my face.

    I have learned to say "my eyes are up here."

    And, yes, OP does seem to have problems involving the women in his life.
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    #17

    Aug 6, 2012, 11:27 AM
    I love my feet
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    Aug 6, 2012, 11:40 AM
    I don't care for it because I don't care for my feet.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 11:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Savanitta View Post
    I love my feet
    - And so your advice is..
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    Aug 6, 2012, 12:35 PM
    True, true. The way I see it... what ever floats your boat! Feet are just another part of the body. I've done some research on foot fetishism. It was interesting to find out that people with foot fetishes (myself included) have an overlap of nerves in their brain. I guess feet are right next to the reproductive system on the map in our brains. In my case, my arousal for arousal overlaps onto feet. I guess that's why I find some women have really attractive feet.

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