farzin
Jun 20, 2012, 11:52 AM
Hi, This is my last source, please help.
I was seeing this guy since I was 19 years old. We fell in love. We belonged to different religion. I'm a Parsi and he is a Muslim. Keeping that in mind I initially told him that I'm not looking forward to a serious relationship. But as time passed we fell for each other and later he proposed me marriage after 2 years. Initially I said no but later he convinced me.
After 4 years of my total relationship with him one day my dad heard from somewhere that I was going around with some one who is not of the same religion. My dad came home and he asked about it but I flatly denied and my dad believed me, but later I realized that what I was doing to my dad is wrong. Hence I broke up with the relationship unwillingly. But I was not able to forget him no matter how so ever I tried. I fell into a relationship later with another guy so that I could forget my past but I was wrong. I was still not able to get him out of my mind under any circumstances. So not complicating the other person's life further I broke up again with the other guy who was of the same caste also. I got back with my previous boyfriend as I was unable to stay without him.
Current situation: We both are together but he says he does not love me the way he use to do earlier. I was shattered. He wants me to become more trendy, stylish and lose a little more weight. I'm also working on it for the same. What else I can do to ignite the same love. I know I can't force him. But there must be some way out. I'm sure. Please advise. I really love him and can't stay away from him. I want him to love me madly. Help.
Thank you.
Farz.
I was seeing this guy since I was 19 years old. We fell in love. We belonged to different religion. I'm a Parsi and he is a Muslim. Keeping that in mind I initially told him that I'm not looking forward to a serious relationship. But as time passed we fell for each other and later he proposed me marriage after 2 years. Initially I said no but later he convinced me.
After 4 years of my total relationship with him one day my dad heard from somewhere that I was going around with some one who is not of the same religion. My dad came home and he asked about it but I flatly denied and my dad believed me, but later I realized that what I was doing to my dad is wrong. Hence I broke up with the relationship unwillingly. But I was not able to forget him no matter how so ever I tried. I fell into a relationship later with another guy so that I could forget my past but I was wrong. I was still not able to get him out of my mind under any circumstances. So not complicating the other person's life further I broke up again with the other guy who was of the same caste also. I got back with my previous boyfriend as I was unable to stay without him.
Current situation: We both are together but he says he does not love me the way he use to do earlier. I was shattered. He wants me to become more trendy, stylish and lose a little more weight. I'm also working on it for the same. What else I can do to ignite the same love. I know I can't force him. But there must be some way out. I'm sure. Please advise. I really love him and can't stay away from him. I want him to love me madly. Help.
Thank you.
Farz.