Sweet_Guy23
Jun 19, 2012, 08:54 AM
I've been dating a female for 4 months. And everything was great as far as I know. Me and her made our dating situation exclusive a few weeks ago. But lastnight we were on the phone talking and these were her exact words.
"My life, I don't know where my life is going..." So I asked her what about her life is she so unsure about, maybe we can talk about it. So she says:
"My dating life is what I'm unsure about. I don't like to be vulnerable. I used to being in control of everything. You are a great guy. You haven't done anything to me to make me feel this way. Maybe I'm just thinking too much and my mind is running. I haven't dated in a long time, and I'm not sure where my dating life is going. I don't want to be in a situation where I'm doing more than the other person. I just don't know people's intentions..."
Now me and her are an couple now. She told me a few times lastnight that I have never done anything to her to make her feel that way, but maybe she is just "overthinking" things. Since lastnight I've been feeling very weird about me and her relationship. Now I don't know what to think anymore. I need some perspectives. Then right before me and her hung up. This is what she said:
I told her that I was going to sleep because I have to work in the morning and her words are
"Okay, you don't want to talk to me anyway."
And today she is supposed to be coming over to my place today for dinner and to spend some time together. And so lastnight I mentioned before we ended the conversation "Was she still coming over today" and these were her words.
"Do you still want me to come over. If you want me to come I'll come."
People I'm just confused now. What is she really saying to me??
Any response would be greatly appreciated.
"My life, I don't know where my life is going..." So I asked her what about her life is she so unsure about, maybe we can talk about it. So she says:
"My dating life is what I'm unsure about. I don't like to be vulnerable. I used to being in control of everything. You are a great guy. You haven't done anything to me to make me feel this way. Maybe I'm just thinking too much and my mind is running. I haven't dated in a long time, and I'm not sure where my dating life is going. I don't want to be in a situation where I'm doing more than the other person. I just don't know people's intentions..."
Now me and her are an couple now. She told me a few times lastnight that I have never done anything to her to make her feel that way, but maybe she is just "overthinking" things. Since lastnight I've been feeling very weird about me and her relationship. Now I don't know what to think anymore. I need some perspectives. Then right before me and her hung up. This is what she said:
I told her that I was going to sleep because I have to work in the morning and her words are
"Okay, you don't want to talk to me anyway."
And today she is supposed to be coming over to my place today for dinner and to spend some time together. And so lastnight I mentioned before we ended the conversation "Was she still coming over today" and these were her words.
"Do you still want me to come over. If you want me to come I'll come."
People I'm just confused now. What is she really saying to me??
Any response would be greatly appreciated.