Me and my ex boyfriend (nate) are dating again I broke up with because him he was flirting with one of my best friends I dated this other guy (austin) two days after I broke up with nate me and austin dated for 9 days then I broke up with him because he was one of those guys who are too close (txting me literally every ten minutes,calling me every half hour literally, and he tried to hold my hand,kiss me,hug me) and he knew I still liked nate. Austin would txt "what are you doing RIGHT NOW" I would say what I was doing and be like how about you then he wouldn't answer ten minutes later "What are you doing RIGHT NOW" I was annoyed so I broke up with him and now me and nate are dating. Austin knows me and nate are dating again and he acts like we are still dating I told him we aren't dating and I don't like him anymore he says I don't care I still like you. Then one day nate goes up to austin why he is obsessed with me he said "im not" but he still calls and texts. What do I do to get him to stop acting like me and him are dating? Nate knows I like him more than anything in the world! So what do I do ? BTW: I'm 13

I'd show his messages and insistence to his male friends, casually. Supposedly, they will tease him for it and he will feel too embarrassed to continue. Another idea would be to tell him you like guys who act mature and his attitude is just making you cry, since you thought he was a nicer guy. You could also phone his parents and ask them to teach their son how to act towards a girl and stop being an immature jerk.

This should also teach you to not date guys you don't really like.

Is there a blocking system feature in your phone? If yes you could block him or change your phone number so that he can't contact you anymore and he can't butt in your life. Tell him that you need a mature person in your life.

Please keep your communication open with your parents. Do not respond to this boy's phone calls or texts... he'll get the message if he gets no response. You may want to ask a friend of his to act on your behalf, maybe someone a little older, to talk to him about learning to let go. If he threatens you or your current boyfriend, please notify the police or your principal, as it is considered cyber-bullying and is against the law. Do not let this boy bully you, name call you, or continue his behavior as it is destructive to your emotions and can lead to a confrontation. Usually, by ignoring his calls and texts, his behavior and negative attention-seeking will stop. Remember, if he doesn't stop-- tell your parents immediately. Good luck !

Because you are jumping from one boyfriend to the other in one day. He expects you to jump back shortly.