Now_what
Mar 18, 2012, 10:05 AM
Yesterday my girlfriend of the past several months, the girl I love with all my heart, said that she doesn't like me. She says she loves me but isn't physically attracted to me. I believe she loves me, I have never doubted that and I'm not going to start now but I just don't understand, how can she love me, yet not like me? In my eyes she is a goddess, is she really? Probably not, but in my eyes she is and I thought when you are in love with someone that's how you see him.
Still and discounting that, the question I need to ask is simple, now what? I always follow my gut with these things and my gut is telling me that breaking up with her is the right course. But, for what's probably the fist time, I can't do that, I simply can't leave her, how could I? I dream of spending my life with her, she is everything. Even more she begs me not to leave her, she says I'm an amazing person and the best thing to ever happen to her, she says as long as she doesn't find me repulsive, it doesn't matter if she isn't physically attracted to me, but doesn't it really? A complete relationship should fulfill you emotionally, intellectually AND physically. That's the kind of fulfillment she gives me, that's what I always wanted to give her too, so how can I accept it will never be? She is not a **** for god's sake, she is the girl I want to marry. How can I do that while knowing that something will always be missing, that I won't ever be the man of her dreams and how can I believe that all this won't one one day, maybe several years from now, come and bite us in the ***?
I don't know what to do, please help.
Still and discounting that, the question I need to ask is simple, now what? I always follow my gut with these things and my gut is telling me that breaking up with her is the right course. But, for what's probably the fist time, I can't do that, I simply can't leave her, how could I? I dream of spending my life with her, she is everything. Even more she begs me not to leave her, she says I'm an amazing person and the best thing to ever happen to her, she says as long as she doesn't find me repulsive, it doesn't matter if she isn't physically attracted to me, but doesn't it really? A complete relationship should fulfill you emotionally, intellectually AND physically. That's the kind of fulfillment she gives me, that's what I always wanted to give her too, so how can I accept it will never be? She is not a **** for god's sake, she is the girl I want to marry. How can I do that while knowing that something will always be missing, that I won't ever be the man of her dreams and how can I believe that all this won't one one day, maybe several years from now, come and bite us in the ***?
I don't know what to do, please help.