SwimRun123
Mar 3, 2012, 05:50 PM
I have been seeing this guy for 3 months. We have an amazing connection. We got very close very fast. We met each others families over the holidays, and he frequently would say things like I am so lucky to have you, you are going to get wifed up if you keep this up, You warm my heart.
So he recently had to go out of town for work for a little over 2 weeks comes home for a short amount (~1wk) of time when this happens and then has to turn around and leave again for 3 more weeks.In this time while he is home he tells me that things are only going to get harder before they get easier and he just can't make up his mind right now. That he feels that we are in a place where he needs to either **** or get off the pot and he just doesn't know what he wants. He tells me that I am everything he wants in a women and if he were to make a list of what he was looking for I would have it all but he doesn't know if he has enough romantic feelings to make it work. He tells me that he doesn't know if he is always going to feel this way and there's no telling what the future will bring. He tells me its not fair for me if he continues this when he doesn't know what he wants and it is only harder the longer it goes on. He says he can't imagine his life without me and he wants to be friends.
I am so confused and I don't know if this has to do with him needing time to think about things or if it is just too much with his work right now? Or if he really doesn't want me in his life anymore. Any advice would be helpful
So he recently had to go out of town for work for a little over 2 weeks comes home for a short amount (~1wk) of time when this happens and then has to turn around and leave again for 3 more weeks.In this time while he is home he tells me that things are only going to get harder before they get easier and he just can't make up his mind right now. That he feels that we are in a place where he needs to either **** or get off the pot and he just doesn't know what he wants. He tells me that I am everything he wants in a women and if he were to make a list of what he was looking for I would have it all but he doesn't know if he has enough romantic feelings to make it work. He tells me that he doesn't know if he is always going to feel this way and there's no telling what the future will bring. He tells me its not fair for me if he continues this when he doesn't know what he wants and it is only harder the longer it goes on. He says he can't imagine his life without me and he wants to be friends.
I am so confused and I don't know if this has to do with him needing time to think about things or if it is just too much with his work right now? Or if he really doesn't want me in his life anymore. Any advice would be helpful