johnnym
Nov 18, 2011, 12:59 PM
My girlfriend and I recently had a discussion of our relationship where she mentioned she was confused about things. She said she needed time to think about things. I had no dispute and agreed saying take your time to think about things. I receive that as a time to take a "break" in the relationship. So I assumed we wouldn't be talking for a period. To my surprise I received a text from her the next day asking about how my day went. She also mentioned in the text that she would call me later that day. This was a bit confusing for me given I expected her wanting time to herself to "think". Nonetheless I responded to her text and suggested that we probably shouldn't talk until later in the week.. allowing her more time to think about things. She responded by saying "ok sure we can chat later in the wee..". So now the week is almost over and I haven't heard from her. My question is should I make contact first or should I wait for her? I don't want to press on her so I'm a bit hesitant to contact her, but at the same time it was my suggestion to wait until the end of the week to chat. Any suggestions on the best approach?