WVmudmouth
Oct 10, 2011, 12:00 AM
Ok, I'm going to try and keep this short and sweet. My ex and I went out for 7 months. We split up in June. A month later she was dating my "buddy" and soon got engaged to him within a damn month! I tried to keep civil with both of them for the sake of my son.
The day I went to the ultrasound to see the gender in August my buddy told me it was his kid and that my ex cheated on me with him. That made me mad beyond belief so I changed my number, blocked all of them on Facebook. Everyone they were associated with a lot of people. For 2 months my ex tried to get a hold of me non stop. My buddy told her lies saying I wanted her to die and all that which was all lies, and told me lies about the cheating and about her not wanting me there. I was so mad id didn't want to listen to reason. They both seemed to be closer than me and her ever was..
After trying so hard to get a hold of me I ran into her in the Walmart parking lot. She explained everything saying after a month of dating him, it was a mistake and that she wanted to get a hold of me to talk about "us" but at the time she was dating my buddy she was saying he was the only one she loved and even wanted to name the boy after him, so I heard.
She wants me back, but she has done re-bounds on all her relationships. Going back to ex's after break-ups. So I'm weary. I just don't think I can ever forgive or forget her sleeping with my buddy, right after we split up.
We did a Placental DNA test and it is mine. A part of me wants to try and have that family life with her as we did live together for most of our relationship. But a part of me will never get over what she did and the bull crap that happened, cause she will go for other guys and want them to try to take role of the dad. I know how she is. I know what she does. She just says she misses me, and wants me back and that she is sorry. But she said that and done that with all her other ex's.
And I just want to do what's best for my son. And myself. Any advice would be great. Thank you
The day I went to the ultrasound to see the gender in August my buddy told me it was his kid and that my ex cheated on me with him. That made me mad beyond belief so I changed my number, blocked all of them on Facebook. Everyone they were associated with a lot of people. For 2 months my ex tried to get a hold of me non stop. My buddy told her lies saying I wanted her to die and all that which was all lies, and told me lies about the cheating and about her not wanting me there. I was so mad id didn't want to listen to reason. They both seemed to be closer than me and her ever was..
After trying so hard to get a hold of me I ran into her in the Walmart parking lot. She explained everything saying after a month of dating him, it was a mistake and that she wanted to get a hold of me to talk about "us" but at the time she was dating my buddy she was saying he was the only one she loved and even wanted to name the boy after him, so I heard.
She wants me back, but she has done re-bounds on all her relationships. Going back to ex's after break-ups. So I'm weary. I just don't think I can ever forgive or forget her sleeping with my buddy, right after we split up.
We did a Placental DNA test and it is mine. A part of me wants to try and have that family life with her as we did live together for most of our relationship. But a part of me will never get over what she did and the bull crap that happened, cause she will go for other guys and want them to try to take role of the dad. I know how she is. I know what she does. She just says she misses me, and wants me back and that she is sorry. But she said that and done that with all her other ex's.
And I just want to do what's best for my son. And myself. Any advice would be great. Thank you