View Full Version : We had a non- strings attached relationship.
amythree
Oct 20, 2010, 03:41 PM
We never slept together, when he ended it, he told me he was only attracted to me physically, not emotionally, where he can fall for me.I fell in love with him. He back off and lied to me. A lot has happened between us, we argue a lot and are no longer friends. He told me he didn't want to get hurt. When I am with someone else, he tells me he cares about me and doesn't feel the same way a year later. Then he tells me he only he said, cause I wanted to hear it. He wants to moved on, but I am not sure why he lies to me so much and hides things. What should I do, advice please
talaniman
Oct 20, 2010, 10:41 PM
I think he was just waiting, and hoping to get in your pants, but sorry it hurt so much to see this guys true colors. You can move on to a better guy who doesn't have to lie and deceive you and this loser will no longer affect you.
I am not sorry for your loss because it will get much better, you'll see.
Devorameira
Oct 21, 2010, 05:05 AM
You definitely need to move on and stay away from him.
Seems like he doesn't want to be with you, but doesn't want anyone else to be with you either.
Don't let him control your life. Go no contact and move on.
mmresd
Oct 24, 2010, 04:19 PM
While there is a possibility that he might feel something for you, it is obvious that it is not enough to have someone more than what you two have had already, and if the love is not mutual you have no choice but to move one, and specially if lies are already involved it's time to drop this and move on.
Good Luck,
Javi
Fr_Chuck
Oct 24, 2010, 04:39 PM
Move on, obviously strings attached, and not from him.