vince28
Sep 28, 2010, 07:25 AM
I'm a 19 year old college student I like playing sports working out and hanging out with my girlfriend.
I have self esteem issues with how I look and how I am as a person. Before I met my girlfriend
I was a really shy person in school and outside of school. I wasn't weird shy I just didn't like
Getting into conversations with people. The problem was that when I start a conversation with
Someone it normally dies out because I don't know what to say after a couple questions.I always get the feeling that everybody dismisses me and that I'm boring.like whatever I say is not important.
This normally happens around girls or some family members or situations where I'm put on the spot.
I never had a girlfriend till junior year in high school and the last girlfrind I had
Was in the sixth grade.I never had any close "girl" friends like my friends did in high school.I was always afraid of rejection or some girl that I liked tell me that I'm ugly.I tend to think I can be so much better than I I'm socially. I just don't have the confidence.is this a real problem or I'm I just thinking about things too much?my frinds are pretty popular around the area where I stay and they know a lot of people and a lot of girls.they always know what to say and come up with lines I never thought they can come up with.I hang out with my friends preetty often and I can be myself around them I feel comfortable talking with them than anybody else.I actually talk a lot around my friends and my girlfriend.maybe it's because I have a lot in common with them. Since I'm surrounded by them I'm surrounded by other popular people,and I feel like I need to make an impression so they think I'm cool just like my friends.but I just don't have the social skills and the confidence I need to make that happen. The thing is I want to be known by everbody especially girls.
I have self esteem issues with how I look and how I am as a person. Before I met my girlfriend
I was a really shy person in school and outside of school. I wasn't weird shy I just didn't like
Getting into conversations with people. The problem was that when I start a conversation with
Someone it normally dies out because I don't know what to say after a couple questions.I always get the feeling that everybody dismisses me and that I'm boring.like whatever I say is not important.
This normally happens around girls or some family members or situations where I'm put on the spot.
I never had a girlfriend till junior year in high school and the last girlfrind I had
Was in the sixth grade.I never had any close "girl" friends like my friends did in high school.I was always afraid of rejection or some girl that I liked tell me that I'm ugly.I tend to think I can be so much better than I I'm socially. I just don't have the confidence.is this a real problem or I'm I just thinking about things too much?my frinds are pretty popular around the area where I stay and they know a lot of people and a lot of girls.they always know what to say and come up with lines I never thought they can come up with.I hang out with my friends preetty often and I can be myself around them I feel comfortable talking with them than anybody else.I actually talk a lot around my friends and my girlfriend.maybe it's because I have a lot in common with them. Since I'm surrounded by them I'm surrounded by other popular people,and I feel like I need to make an impression so they think I'm cool just like my friends.but I just don't have the social skills and the confidence I need to make that happen. The thing is I want to be known by everbody especially girls.