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idk00
Jun 28, 2010, 07:45 AM
Ok so me and this guy had a thing going for awhile. But when it all started he was dating one of my best friends of like 5 years. So we would go out for breakfast and hang out just the two of us and then one day we did more and he cheated on his girlfriend. She found out and they broke up. He stopped talking to me and the girl and me talked and got on good terms again. Then he started talking to me again like late night phone calls and stuff. Found out later that it was just because he liked me for the stuff more than me. Well that all changed and we ended up dating for like a month but then he broke up with me well it was mutual but he did the actual breaking up. But he keeps calling me every night just like we used to and asks what I'm doing tomorrow and how my day was annd if I want to go to breakfast. See I would be over him by now but we talk every night even the night we broke up he called me what should I do cause I have no idea what this all means.

Wondergirl
Jun 28, 2010, 08:00 AM
Stop talking with him. Don't text, IM, phone him, answer the phone when it's him. Block him. Avoid him in person and electronically. This is called No Contact. Get over him and move on with your life. Stop spinning your wheels.

parisrose
Jun 28, 2010, 08:51 AM
Stop talking with him immediately, you guys are broken up.

He is probably just keeping in contact with you in hopes of some sort of booty call.

Wayyyy to many red flags here, move on and find a good guy.

talaniman
Jun 28, 2010, 09:47 AM
Take the advice of the others, and stop letting him talk to you at all, and keep you thinking about him.

idk00
Jun 28, 2010, 06:49 PM
I can't because he is everywhere and we were best friends before all this...

BWK10
Jun 28, 2010, 07:01 PM
Its not that you can't, it's you don't want too... two different things. Once you want to stop hurting you start NC

idk00
Jun 28, 2010, 07:07 PM
What's NC?

talaniman
Jun 28, 2010, 08:52 PM
No Contact, so you can gain clarity, and not be confused by any contact you have with him.

Yes any contact what so ever will confuse you until you have gotten over him, because all those old feelings will come back, and you will be miserable and confused, and wonder why.

vanheart
Jun 29, 2010, 06:27 PM
Hes a cheater.
Just wants more booty calls.

Don't be a sucker.