stljayhawk
Apr 22, 2010, 11:16 AM
I met this girl through a mutual friend a couple weeks ago. We went on two dates that I thought were really good. We talked really easily, laughed a lot, and she even showed me pictures of her friends and family on her phone. At the end of the second date, I dropped her off at her place and kissed her goodnight. We talked or saw each other everyday for the first 6 days.
The next day after the second date, I saw her at school, and she seemed a little weird. I called her later that night and she didn't call back. I called her again this past Friday and she returned my call and we talked for awhile, but she had to cut me off and said she'd call back but did not. We have not spoken since.
I know that she is very busy because we are both in grad school and finals are next week. I asked our mutual friend to see what was going on, and the mutual friend talked to her. She said she isn't sure, and she can't think about hanging out until after finals are over. She also said she wants to hang out with me but isn't sure if she feels a spark or not.
I feel as though I probably rushed things and came off a bit needy and maybe got put into the friend zone. She was quite interested when we first started seeing each other, so if there is any way to salvage that interest, please let me know what steps to take or what she may be thinking? Thanks!
The next day after the second date, I saw her at school, and she seemed a little weird. I called her later that night and she didn't call back. I called her again this past Friday and she returned my call and we talked for awhile, but she had to cut me off and said she'd call back but did not. We have not spoken since.
I know that she is very busy because we are both in grad school and finals are next week. I asked our mutual friend to see what was going on, and the mutual friend talked to her. She said she isn't sure, and she can't think about hanging out until after finals are over. She also said she wants to hang out with me but isn't sure if she feels a spark or not.
I feel as though I probably rushed things and came off a bit needy and maybe got put into the friend zone. She was quite interested when we first started seeing each other, so if there is any way to salvage that interest, please let me know what steps to take or what she may be thinking? Thanks!