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xoalyssaxoxo
Apr 14, 2010, 04:48 PM
Me and my boyfriend went out for 2 months. Then I wasn't feeling it anymore so I broke up with him. I didn't realized I still liked him and he still like me. He asked me back out about 3 weeks after the break up. I had to break up with him again because he flirted with my best friend. After that I realized I didn't like him anymore and he wasn't the one. Its been 2 months and I haven't loved anyone else. Its like something is stopping me. I still ask myself the question is he the one. Is he the one stopping me from loving other people? Is he the one?

the_original
Apr 15, 2010, 06:27 AM
No one is stopping you... your just not ready yet. Don't worry about finding a boyfriend or finding love, it will find you when you are happy and the time is right. Its natural to have doubts so soon after a relationship has ended, but you have admitted that you don't feel he's the one... so plain and simple: he's not. Just live your life and be happy single, everyday that passes brings you a day closer to the person who you ARE supposed to be with

I wish
Apr 15, 2010, 06:28 AM
How old are you? A 2 month relationship is not long at all. You've only been recovering from the break up for 2 months, which isn't long at all.

There are 6 billion other people in the world. Until you've met them all, I doubt you'll know who the one really is.

What you want is to find someone who makes you happy. Not someone who gives you so many doubts.

talaniman
Apr 15, 2010, 06:16 PM
There is nothing wrong with you. You are just recovering from a failed relationship, where you were betrayed by a lousy boyfriend is all. It will get better, but it takes time.

friend4u178
Apr 15, 2010, 07:00 PM
Plenty of good guys out there and you'll find the one you love when your not even looking.

You've tried with this guy twice and it didn't work , there are obviously reasons for that , what makes you think it would be different the 3rd time around.

Just be patient.