dilanmaxx
Mar 6, 2010, 05:56 AM
Hi All,
I am a Chinese national who is 28 years old. I had a complicated relationship with a girl from Uni long time ago. She kept on giving me hopes for four years and finally left me. And I actually had to end the relationship because of the mind torture she gave me.
This is my problem. Since I was having a feeling for I used to fancy her and masterbate. Eventually I got addicted to it. I fance her having sex with others like older people or other guys and masterbate. Now that she has left and 4 years have passed and I am still doing this. I think this is a serious issue. I have realised finally that I need to consult a doctor to come out of this dogma. Actually she was very mean to me those days. Now she is having a sexual relationship with somebody else to my knowledge.
Should I consult a doctor> How to lead a normal life like others? Is there a way to stop fancying her and masterbate? I hope you will help me without looking at my problem in a disgusting way, because I am willing to change and be a better person. So guys please help me..
Thank you all..
I am a Chinese national who is 28 years old. I had a complicated relationship with a girl from Uni long time ago. She kept on giving me hopes for four years and finally left me. And I actually had to end the relationship because of the mind torture she gave me.
This is my problem. Since I was having a feeling for I used to fancy her and masterbate. Eventually I got addicted to it. I fance her having sex with others like older people or other guys and masterbate. Now that she has left and 4 years have passed and I am still doing this. I think this is a serious issue. I have realised finally that I need to consult a doctor to come out of this dogma. Actually she was very mean to me those days. Now she is having a sexual relationship with somebody else to my knowledge.
Should I consult a doctor> How to lead a normal life like others? Is there a way to stop fancying her and masterbate? I hope you will help me without looking at my problem in a disgusting way, because I am willing to change and be a better person. So guys please help me..
Thank you all..