anony12321
Jan 1, 2010, 08:29 PM
Hi, all. Thanks for keeping this a great discussion place.
Without going into specifics I would like to get some opinions in some scenarios that I find difficult to fully grasp.
- I guess its very common to have two people where one starts to fall in love, while the other does not. Is it common for this to work out into a relationship? Or is this already doomed to failure?
- I always feel like people who give too much to someone always get nothing. Can a girl just fall for a guy who wants all good for her? Even if she isn't a user (uses this to get him to do stuff), does this ever work out? Lets assume is behavior is not obsessive.
- How should a relationship evolve from the start? Does it have to always be on perfect love-balance (one should love the other as much) for it to work out? Is it feasible to have someone love another, waiting for the other to love back. Does it ever work? How important is the balance of the love in a relationship?
Thanks
Without going into specifics I would like to get some opinions in some scenarios that I find difficult to fully grasp.
- I guess its very common to have two people where one starts to fall in love, while the other does not. Is it common for this to work out into a relationship? Or is this already doomed to failure?
- I always feel like people who give too much to someone always get nothing. Can a girl just fall for a guy who wants all good for her? Even if she isn't a user (uses this to get him to do stuff), does this ever work out? Lets assume is behavior is not obsessive.
- How should a relationship evolve from the start? Does it have to always be on perfect love-balance (one should love the other as much) for it to work out? Is it feasible to have someone love another, waiting for the other to love back. Does it ever work? How important is the balance of the love in a relationship?
Thanks