Rize
Dec 31, 2009, 10:44 AM
Hello again, I need some good advice, this may sound sort of redundant from the previous question but it's a little different and I need some good advice please :(
So I kept talking to the 20 year and me 17, and he seemed really into me and we haven't hung out in a couple of weeks due to the snow storm etc. And I went out of town during Christmas break we didn't text much and on the ride back he seemed eager for me to reach home so we can hang out but I've been home its been a few days he hasn't texted and for someone so eager to hang out... We haven't. He usually texts me everyday and he hasn't over the holidays except once and he didn't reply to my response so I've texted him trying not to be or sound clingy because its not like were together trying th get him to talk. I was so doubtful about his feelings but he seemed flirty still so on the ride back when I texted him he was really eager and flirty so I knew I could expect a goodmorning text or something like that the next day and well... I got nothing. So a couple days passed and it seemed weird that he hasn't and usually if he's busy, he is. He's really into his activities and sports. Okie so I'm the one who's been texting him more now and I can't understand why he doesn't want to anymore himself. So I finnaly decidedto text him this morning and he's like hey sweetie which surprised me cause he seemed like nothing happened and than he hasn't responded yet I think he said he was taking his mom to the store. What does this mean? Should I make the first move and I don't think I'm ready to say it completely and ask him because I'm just not sure anymore and I can't at a time like this. What should I do? Make the first move? Keep distance? What do you think he means by this? I know I sound paranoid and I'm overanalyzing but this is the first time I really liked someone since like February which was one of the most painful relationship break ups I have been through. There have been other guys but I wasn't all that into them like this guy. I hate rejection and I hate not knowing where I stand and with this new found confusion I don't know if it's the right ims to ask him directly because I just feel pathetic and clingy. Is it just because we haven't Hung out for a while? Butte hasn't askede and I don't want to bring it up again. I said I missed him after the hey sweetie today and he didn't say he missed me back or anything. I don't mind moving on but I just don't like knowing I didn't try my best because I like him. Explain this to me please and tell me what I should do. He can be so freedom loving etc but even though were a little different why lead me on? I figure that might be it I don't know... :(
So I kept talking to the 20 year and me 17, and he seemed really into me and we haven't hung out in a couple of weeks due to the snow storm etc. And I went out of town during Christmas break we didn't text much and on the ride back he seemed eager for me to reach home so we can hang out but I've been home its been a few days he hasn't texted and for someone so eager to hang out... We haven't. He usually texts me everyday and he hasn't over the holidays except once and he didn't reply to my response so I've texted him trying not to be or sound clingy because its not like were together trying th get him to talk. I was so doubtful about his feelings but he seemed flirty still so on the ride back when I texted him he was really eager and flirty so I knew I could expect a goodmorning text or something like that the next day and well... I got nothing. So a couple days passed and it seemed weird that he hasn't and usually if he's busy, he is. He's really into his activities and sports. Okie so I'm the one who's been texting him more now and I can't understand why he doesn't want to anymore himself. So I finnaly decidedto text him this morning and he's like hey sweetie which surprised me cause he seemed like nothing happened and than he hasn't responded yet I think he said he was taking his mom to the store. What does this mean? Should I make the first move and I don't think I'm ready to say it completely and ask him because I'm just not sure anymore and I can't at a time like this. What should I do? Make the first move? Keep distance? What do you think he means by this? I know I sound paranoid and I'm overanalyzing but this is the first time I really liked someone since like February which was one of the most painful relationship break ups I have been through. There have been other guys but I wasn't all that into them like this guy. I hate rejection and I hate not knowing where I stand and with this new found confusion I don't know if it's the right ims to ask him directly because I just feel pathetic and clingy. Is it just because we haven't Hung out for a while? Butte hasn't askede and I don't want to bring it up again. I said I missed him after the hey sweetie today and he didn't say he missed me back or anything. I don't mind moving on but I just don't like knowing I didn't try my best because I like him. Explain this to me please and tell me what I should do. He can be so freedom loving etc but even though were a little different why lead me on? I figure that might be it I don't know... :(