me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 4 weeks ago and I'm 1 week and 3 days late... I been fellin like I want to throw up but I don't I have head acts and I'm tired or I can't sleep also been having flu like symptoms... my belly has also been getting bigger the frist day of my last mentrol cycle was on aug 27 of 09.. what do you think

Any time you have sex there's always some chance of becoming pregnant. Failing to sue protection increases that chance. So yes, you may be pregnant. Or maybe your cycle is just a little of this month. How long is your cycle usually anyway? If your last period was 8/27, it seems like you should have almost another week to go based on the average cycle being 28-30 days. It is the beginning of flu season. If you think you might have the flu, you probably do.

Well it feels like the flu but I don't have it... my cycle is 28 days... what about my belly getting bigger

Even if you are pregnant it's way too early for you to be showing. Sometimes your mind can play tricks on you. If you're concerned, tak ea pregnancy test.

Maybe it's too late and I just can't count anymore today... but if your cycle is 28 days, then don't you have a few more days to go until you should even be expecting your period?

Well my homegurl pregnant and if I am than me and her will be about 6 weeks with each other and she is 6 weeks and she showing... she says I am cause my belly look almost like her

well my homegurl pregnant and if i am than me and her will be bout 6 weeks with each other and she is 6 weeks and she showing...she says i am cause my belly look almost like her

Do you WANT to be pregnant? How old are you?

I'm 16 and if I am ill be happy and I don't believe in abortion cause I think when your having sex with a condom you know what your getting yourself into

im 16 and if i am ill be happy and i dont belive in abortion cause i think when ur havin sex with a condom u know what your getting yourself into

You're not going to be happy when you're unable to have your own future because a child is dependent on you. If you are consciously TRYING to have a child, you're an idiot. And your friend is very unlucky for being pregnant so young. If you're not intentionally trying to have a child, maybe because your friend is pregnant, then you need to be protected at the very least.

I can have a furture... and I won't blam anything on the child... im not trying to hear I'm stupid or anything I want to know if you think I am or not

Well I told you exactly what would happen. But yeah, there's a good chance. I really hope that you're not. Trust me, it's not glamorous.

You can barely spell. Blam is BLAME. If you haven't finished your education yet, you shouldn't even consider having a child.

OK so I forgot to but a e... I have alll a's

ok so i forgot to but a e...i have alll a's

Your teacher must not grade on accuracy of spelling and grammar. You forgot aN e.

You aren't even educated enough to come on here and properly spell words like "just", "blame", or "won't" and you think you're going to be able to have a future if you have a kid right now? How are you going to pull that off? How are you going to finish your educate so that you can get a job while working to support you and your baby and still have time to care for your baby? I think you may very well be pregnant but I hope you're not. And what about your boyfriend? Doe she want a child? Will he really stick around if you're pregnant? There's grown men that don't even stick around when their girlfriends get pregnant. Why would a teenager? If you're lucky, and not pregnant, USE BIRTH CONTROL from now on. A 16 year old deliberately getting pregnant is stupid. If you don't want to hear how stupid it is, don't do it.

you aren't even educated enough to come on here and properly spell words like "just", "blame", or "won't" and you think you're going to be able to have a future if you have a kid right now? how are you going to pull that off? how are you going to finish your educate so that you can get a job while working to support you and your baby and still have time to care for your baby? i think you may very well be pregnant but i hope you're not. and what about your boyfriend? doe she want a child? will he really stick around if you're pregnant? there's grown men that don't even stick around when their girlfriends get pregnant. why would a teenager? if you're lucky, and not pregnant, USE BIRTH CONTROL from now on. a 16 year old deliberately getting pregnant is stupid. if you don't want to hear how stupid it is, don't do it.

Better yet, abstain from sex altoghether. But I doubt she will do it, because people these days are very much controlled by the idea that "what feels good, is good" So they go around pleasure seeking, even though it's the most moronic thing they can do. People these days, and they just keep getting younger and younger.

1st its does not doe and its he not she and im the one that can't spell...

1ST ITS DOES NOT DOE AND ITS HE NOT SHE AND IM THE ONE THAT can't SPELL...

You realize that they just pressed spacebar too early right?

You really want to start trying to proof read what I wrote? Go for it. Let me know when you're done, and I'll go read back through all of yours and we'll compare.

You seem to be trying to distract from the real issue here. And that's that you are way too young to even be considering having a child. Go take a pregnancy test. And if you're lucky, and you're not pregnant, start using birth control. Or, as ohsohappy suggested, abstain altogether. That's even better, then you don't have to worry about even needing birth control.

Look they are right, you are 16 and you don't need a child. Get some birth control. I have two kids and it hard as hell. I'm only 19. I'm trying to make it in a world that don't care who you are or what you are. your best bet is to live while you can. just cause someone you know is pegnant doesn't mean you have to do it. you have no clue what you are talking about. Are you sure you want to be up 2-3 hours feeding a newborn, changing daipers, pee or crap. running them to the doctor. staying up with them when they are sick. MOTHERHOOD IS A FULL TIME JOB! People really don't know until they have childern. I know at 16 i didn't want kids, and I hear you saying you want kids i'll leave you with mine. i promise you would change your mind. my little girl 10 months old and still gets up in the middle of the night, and you have to get up. just think before you start a thread. you might not want to know what we think, pesonally i think your dumb for wanting a child at 16.

I think u might be pregnant u should take a hpt or go to the doctor

No text chat please!

I didn't say I wanted one but if it happens I will keep it

i didnt say i wanted one but if it happens i will keep it

Well that's entirely different. We assumed that when you said that you'd be happy if you were pregnant, that you were trying to get pregnant. Do you understand where that might be confusing? Next time clarify better, so that we have more understanding on the situation, thus being able to help you easier.

Understand, that it's very disheartening when young people get pregnant. We know you're not ready, and it saddens us that society has somehow transformed to where children are having sex at a young age.

But If you think about it, Back a long time ago, before more modern times, it was not uncommon for children to be married as young as 14. Thus meaning that they were having sex.

I think that the only differences between now and then, are means of support, and we realize now how important it is for a child to be able to have their childhood for as long as possible. Because once you become a grown-up, you can't go back to being a little kid. It's important that you not want to grow up to fast. You don't want to miss out on your childhood. I know I did, albeit from a different situation, but I think the last time I was able to be a kid was around 13. That's TOO young.

I think its not a good thing to bash people on trivial matters such as spelling. I've seen a lot of that here and that's a bit of a turn off. I myself am a poor speller and rely on firefox's spell check to do most of my thinking.

But to the matter at hand...

It is entirely possible that you are pregnant. There is a very small chance that you'd be showing by now... you maybe sick or something else. You're definitely due for your monthly and maybe have a little bloating going on. Also pseudo pregnancy can make you sick. My girlfriend went through that a while back. She thought she was pregnant and started stressing about it. Every time she is under stress, she turns up a week or two late. Coincidentally she was nauseous also.

I think its not a good thing for people who are not ready for children to be having them... and our society doesn't care. But age has little to do with it. Most people I know aren't ready at 30 or some even at 40. We live in a socially immature world. As far as waiting to guarantee support the child... that's not such a bad idea. It is a rough life with teen mother. It is hard for a teen to support the child because not many people will even hire a 16yr old, let alone full time or above minimum wage.

I can see how it makes many people happy, however I find you a noble person for making the best of things and being happy. And also not wanting to abort it or give it up.

I wish you Luck!

Info, no one claims to be a perfect speller or use perfect grammar here. But when someone comes on here and cannot even spell elementary level words, or form complete sentences, and they're talking about bringing a baby into the world before they've even finished school and insisting that they can still have a future like it's a walk in the park, that's cause for concern. That's why it was brought up. Typos here and there are entirely understandable. But chat speak and an obvious lack of attempt to correct spelling, that's irritating.

Lol, see, I accidentally put a "d "in the word "another" :)Typing too fast. Now it's driving me nuts.

Wow sweetie, I was 16 when I got pregnant and I don't regret my daughter at all she is now almost 6 months but kids change everything!! That is nothing you should ever wish for at your age! Babies don't care if you have home work or if your tired. All they know is that need to eat sleep and be changed and mommy daddy aren't the ones who are going to take care of you baby because you have school or you want to go out with your friends. You have no idea what you are getting into. I hope you aren't pregnant, because being a teen parent is so much harder then it looks. You may be able to stay up all night now but after 9 months of tossing and turning and then a newborn that doesn't sleep threw the night isn't very easy.

wow sweetie, i was 16 when i got pregnant and i dont regret my daughter at all she is now almost 6 months but kids change everything!!!! that is nothing you should ever wish for at your age! babies dont care if you have home work or if your tired. all they know is that need to eat sleep n be changed and mommy daddy arent the ones who are going to take care of you baby because you have school or you want to go out with your friends. you have no idea what you are getting into. i hope you arent pregnant, because being a teen parent is so much harder then it looks. you may be able to stay up all night now but after 9 months of tossing and turning and then a newborn that doesnt sleep threw the night isnt very easy.



I agree with everything. Please listen to her. I'm 19 with two. They don't care they just know what mama and daddy suppose to do