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mikey49
Sep 18, 2009, 05:15 PM
Did I mess up a good thing with a girl "friend" of mine who rejected me as a partner? Her response was shallow pretty much inplying my bank account wasn't up to par. Although I'm a great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with. I said some hurtful things, I really like her, but now I think the friendship is lost.

Thanks

N0help4u
Sep 18, 2009, 08:29 PM
Well you can do one of two things apologize and be friends with someone who may be snobby/shallow and doesn't think you are good enough IF she forgives you.
OR be glad you found out this side of her and just move on with your life.

mudweiser
Sep 18, 2009, 08:34 PM
Did I mess up a good thing with a girl "friend" of mine who rejected me as a partner? Her response was shallow pretty much inplying my bank account wasn't up to par.

She is shallow. A girl like that does not deserve a "great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with."



I said some hurtful things, I really like her, but now I think the friendship is lost.

thanks

What you may have said was out of anger maybe even out of spite and disappointment. I wouldn't worry much about losing that type of friendship, chances are if she had that attitude she wasn't that great of a friend.

Move on.

Sarah

mikey49
Sep 21, 2009, 09:49 AM
She is shallow. A girl like that does not deserve a "great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with."




What you may have said was out of anger maybe even out of spite and disappointment. I wouldn't worry much about losing that type of friendship, chances are if she had that attitude she wasn't that great of a friend.

Move on.

Sarah

Thanks, Sarah! And all thosae qualities about me came from HER, and not me. So, you I guess she just wants a rich jerk.