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delink
Apr 10, 2009, 04:31 AM
OK so here it goes... I was in a long-term relationship that I had planned on breaking away from in the near future... just waiting for the right time I suppose, or giving it a short while to see if we could salvage our relationship. Then before I had the chance to call it off, I met this amazing woman. Right off the bat, we hit it off well. We enjoyed a couple nights together, just hanging out. I go away on vacation and end up breaking up with my girlfriend... the whole time I keep in touch with the girl I just met, and I told her I had something I needed to tell her once I got back. So, finally I get back home... I call her up and let her know I had a girlfriend that I just broke up with... she doesn't want to talk to me because I lied when she asked if I had a girlfriend the first time. I told her I didn't know how to handle the situation because I planned on breaking up with my girlfriend and had not done it yet, so I lied about it. For a couple days after she found out I kept asking if she wanted to go hang out or do something, 3rd day she just ignores me and so I get rid of her number. What could I have done? I still want to see her, but I'm afraid there's nothing else I can do. She told me I should have been honest from the start, and told her that I was in a relationship and had planned on ending it soon... I don't know, I was too scared to tell her that. Any advice? Do I stand a chance?

chrissymarie
Apr 10, 2009, 10:36 AM
She doing what she should do. You lied to her. Why hould she believe you wouldn't just leave her for another woman too? Have some morality and respect for women. Think about someone other then yourself too. She gone for a good reason so leave her alone.

artlady
Apr 10, 2009, 10:41 AM
She sounds like an amazing woman,I agree.
She is amazing because she isn't willing to begin a relationship on a false note.
Maybe she has been rebound girl before.Maybe she has a very low tolerance for deceit.
I think you should take this experience as a lesson and let her be.She has made her choice.

talaniman
Apr 10, 2009, 10:42 AM
Your actions have consequences. Learn your lesson, and be honest next time. Your lying has ruined your chances with this one.

If your were honest, you would have ended the old relationship, before starting another one.