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Apr 10, 2009, 04:31 AM
OK so here it goes... I was in a long-term relationship that I had planned on breaking away from in the near future... just waiting for the right time I suppose, or giving it a short while to see if we could salvage our relationship. Then before I had the chance to call it off, I met this amazing woman. Right off the bat, we hit it off well. We enjoyed a couple nights together, just hanging out. I go away on vacation and end up breaking up with my girlfriend... the whole time I keep in touch with the girl I just met, and I told her I had something I needed to tell her once I got back. So, finally I get back home... I call her up and let her know I had a girlfriend that I just broke up with... she doesn't want to talk to me because I lied when she asked if I had a girlfriend the first time. I told her I didn't know how to handle the situation because I planned on breaking up with my girlfriend and had not done it yet, so I lied about it. For a couple days after she found out I kept asking if she wanted to go hang out or do something, 3rd day she just ignores me and so I get rid of her number. What could I have done? I still want to see her, but I'm afraid there's nothing else I can do. She told me I should have been honest from the start, and told her that I was in a relationship and had planned on ending it soon... I don't know, I was too scared to tell her that. Any advice? Do I stand a chance?