Rebecca x
Mar 8, 2009, 03:28 PM
Hey .
I have a real problem , hope someone can help!
I've been with my boyfriend for 7months , and his 'ex' ( well a girl he slept with a few times is pregnant). She told him about 2months into out months and at the time I didn't try to think about it but now the babs due at the end of next month and the whole thing seems to becoming more and more real she found out the sex of the baby ( it's a girl) and he took the photo of the scan into his work ( cause they work together) to show everyone . He tells me he dose not want a child, not with her but then dose that? I am really proud of him for sticking but her an helping her , but something I just wish whys it her not me ? ( not that were planing to) but if we stay together an move in and get married, etc this child will be part of out family , I don't want a broken family.
I love my boyfriend with all my heart , we get along so great but then then minute he takes his 'ex' to the scan etc , its like he's breaking a till pieces of my heart every time he dose,
Am only eighteen and he's twenty but we have talked about moving in together ad everything , I now we could work if he didn't have a child on the way but the fact that he dose makes everything 10 tens harder!
The 'ex' dose however , have some what of a rep for sleeping around , and at the time she would off fallen pregnant there's talk she was sleeping other men , my boyfriend says he can't rember if he wore a condom or not . But the girl hasn't said anything about the father being anyone els , he is gittin a DNA test when the child is born but am not sure if it turns out to be his what am going to do..
We got together on the 26 of July and the babies due on at the end of April , I don't know if its two weeks each way but dose that not make it a good chance its no his ? He was however sleeping with here two before. But only 3/4time and I do no it only takes the once..
Please, if anyone has an option do share! Thankss! X
I have a real problem , hope someone can help!
I've been with my boyfriend for 7months , and his 'ex' ( well a girl he slept with a few times is pregnant). She told him about 2months into out months and at the time I didn't try to think about it but now the babs due at the end of next month and the whole thing seems to becoming more and more real she found out the sex of the baby ( it's a girl) and he took the photo of the scan into his work ( cause they work together) to show everyone . He tells me he dose not want a child, not with her but then dose that? I am really proud of him for sticking but her an helping her , but something I just wish whys it her not me ? ( not that were planing to) but if we stay together an move in and get married, etc this child will be part of out family , I don't want a broken family.
I love my boyfriend with all my heart , we get along so great but then then minute he takes his 'ex' to the scan etc , its like he's breaking a till pieces of my heart every time he dose,
Am only eighteen and he's twenty but we have talked about moving in together ad everything , I now we could work if he didn't have a child on the way but the fact that he dose makes everything 10 tens harder!
The 'ex' dose however , have some what of a rep for sleeping around , and at the time she would off fallen pregnant there's talk she was sleeping other men , my boyfriend says he can't rember if he wore a condom or not . But the girl hasn't said anything about the father being anyone els , he is gittin a DNA test when the child is born but am not sure if it turns out to be his what am going to do..
We got together on the 26 of July and the babies due on at the end of April , I don't know if its two weeks each way but dose that not make it a good chance its no his ? He was however sleeping with here two before. But only 3/4time and I do no it only takes the once..
Please, if anyone has an option do share! Thankss! X