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springrunner23
Feb 9, 2009, 07:43 PM
I am truly in love with mark. I really don't feel my feelings have changed since 3 years ago but he has changed. I try my best to make him happy and I feel like he still is holding back from me. He used to be thrilled to be dated me and would let me know by occasionally stopping by unexpectedly like even at 9 or 2 pm. He used to let me know how he felt by caring for me and what I was feeling. And would always let me know somehow if he was thinking of me by just saying I miss you or I love you randomly. If he messed up he would try so hard to fix it but now.. it seems as if he lost feeling for me. He says he hasn't but how can I be sure when he doesn't smile at me or look at me the same way. All the things I listed earlier have disappeared. And all of his personality is changing. He cares so much about what other people think about him or "us", his ego. And I just don't see him anymore. He does too much. I can only see him once a week alone boyfriend girlfriend time.. and last weekend he tried to ditch me and lied about it but I caught him. I have tried to leave him and I just want him back within 2 days. And he doesn't like to talk. What do I do?

caliboy1980
Feb 9, 2009, 08:03 PM
Hi there. Well its simple he knows that you really love him that's why he is acting this way. Also us guys usually take advantage of that and we go try someone else. So he doesn't know how it feels without. Do the same thing as he is doing now and he will realize soon. Because I'm telling you from my personnel experience. I used to like him when I went out a girl for 4 years. So she treated like I was treating her and now I realize how I feel with out her so do that and it will help u. now I'm married to the same girl.