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Feb 7, 2009, 01:19 AM
So this guy friends me on Facebook randomly. We have two mutual friends so I accept. We message back and forth a bit and then he says we should meet for coffee. We continue to chat online and eventually I bring up the coffee thing and we meet. He seems nice, a bit nervous. He asks for my number so I give it to him. Later that day, I send him a message online asking for his number because I forgot to ask earlier. He gives it to me and tells me it was great meeting me and that I'm even prettier in person. After that, we continue to chat online almost everyday. He mostly starts the conversations.
Then one day I get the nerve to ask him to lunch. He says he can't because he has an exam to work on, but maybe the next day. So the next day, around noonish he starts talking to me online and tells me he finished his exam, but he doesn't mention lunch. I make plans with someone else for lunch. Later, I ask him about it and he calls me to try to make plans, but it has been almost an hour since he had started talking to me online. So I tell him that I have made other plans. He jokes about him taking too long and that maybe we could do it another time. He also tells me the reason he waited long was because he wasn't really hungry. I tell him he should've just said that. So I tell him maybe we could have dinner. He tells me to call him after I get off work to see what's going on. I call and he doesn't answer. He sends a text 20 minutes later saying he's hanging with friends. I thought for sure he was no longer interested at this point.
Two days later, he starts talking to me online again. The next day, he asks me to lunch late in the day, but I've already eaten. Later I text and tell him we could do lunch tomorrow. He says sure and to let him know what time. I say noon and then get no response. The next day I text around 10am and ask if we're still doing lunch. He responds half hour later and says he just woke up and won't be hungry for lunch, plus he has a project to work on. Later we talk online and he apologizes for being so flaky and explains that it's the end of classes (the winter intersession) and that when the new semester begins, in two days, things will get better because he'll have less to do.
A few days later, once his new classes begin, I text to see if he wants to do lunch. He responds online an hour later and apologizes for missing my text earlier. We joke around a bit. Then I said, "well, im about to give up on you :-p" and he says, "hmmm. u sure" and I say, "I'll leave that up to you" and he says, "I'll try my best." Then I said, "unless you want me to give up on you." After that he signs off so I send him a text saying, "then I'll take that as a yes?" No response.
Now, I know I probably shouldn't have said all that, but I was starting to get frustrated. He starts talking to me all the time, but then he never comes through. He also responds by saying he'll try his best, which I'm not sure what that means, so I'm totally confused by him. What should I do? Is he even interested anymore? Is he just being polite and friendly?
Then one day I get the nerve to ask him to lunch. He says he can't because he has an exam to work on, but maybe the next day. So the next day, around noonish he starts talking to me online and tells me he finished his exam, but he doesn't mention lunch. I make plans with someone else for lunch. Later, I ask him about it and he calls me to try to make plans, but it has been almost an hour since he had started talking to me online. So I tell him that I have made other plans. He jokes about him taking too long and that maybe we could do it another time. He also tells me the reason he waited long was because he wasn't really hungry. I tell him he should've just said that. So I tell him maybe we could have dinner. He tells me to call him after I get off work to see what's going on. I call and he doesn't answer. He sends a text 20 minutes later saying he's hanging with friends. I thought for sure he was no longer interested at this point.
Two days later, he starts talking to me online again. The next day, he asks me to lunch late in the day, but I've already eaten. Later I text and tell him we could do lunch tomorrow. He says sure and to let him know what time. I say noon and then get no response. The next day I text around 10am and ask if we're still doing lunch. He responds half hour later and says he just woke up and won't be hungry for lunch, plus he has a project to work on. Later we talk online and he apologizes for being so flaky and explains that it's the end of classes (the winter intersession) and that when the new semester begins, in two days, things will get better because he'll have less to do.
A few days later, once his new classes begin, I text to see if he wants to do lunch. He responds online an hour later and apologizes for missing my text earlier. We joke around a bit. Then I said, "well, im about to give up on you :-p" and he says, "hmmm. u sure" and I say, "I'll leave that up to you" and he says, "I'll try my best." Then I said, "unless you want me to give up on you." After that he signs off so I send him a text saying, "then I'll take that as a yes?" No response.
Now, I know I probably shouldn't have said all that, but I was starting to get frustrated. He starts talking to me all the time, but then he never comes through. He also responds by saying he'll try his best, which I'm not sure what that means, so I'm totally confused by him. What should I do? Is he even interested anymore? Is he just being polite and friendly?