babz888
Jan 20, 2009, 12:01 PM
Hi again! Well another problem. Ill give you's a brief description on it. Im currently living in the uk northern ireland again and I'm studying forensic science, human biology, chemistry ict and technology at school for A-level. I'm 17, turned 17 1st November.. This sounds totally irrelevant atm but you'll hopefully understand as I go on.
Well the problem lies where I have met this guy. I've lied about my age.. I didn't intend to it was when I was 16 we met at a holiday camp and I was illegally playing bingo with the family and won 500 odd pound so when this entertainer asked my age my dad said 20 because I have ID, fake obv saying that I am 21 now .
Well me and this entertainer got talking and I thought it'd be best to continue lying about my age for the duration of my hoilday simple because I didn't think we'd go much further after I went home.
Now however we are in a relationship from August 2008. It's really serious and I love him more than anything in the world.. ( by the way you might not think it from reading this but I am really mature for my age because I've had to grow up fast if you get me ) Anyway this guy is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I know its love because of the feelings I have towards him. He says he feels the same way about me and I've even talked about moving over to live with him across the water when we both get the money.
Well he thinks am 21, go to university studying forensic science, I work in a old age care home and in a chip shop.
Reality is I am 17, I don't study at uni, I study forensics at college, I do in fact work both in a nursing home and chip shop in my spare time after college and at weekends.
So I haven't lied about a lot I have been myself and everything me and him have talked about is what we both want...
When He told me earlier today that he has found the perfect engagement ring for me.. reality hit. I would LOVE to MARRY HIM but I can't accept until I have explained to him that I'm 17 and why and how the lie has come about.
I am TERRIFIED that he will leave me, because I REALLY HONESTLY properly no messing around LOVE HIM.
I no I sound like the most terrible of terrible people doing this to him but I need help on how to tell him, what to say? I really don't want to hurt him or for him not to trust me because I haven't lied about anything else! How do I tell him that I'm 17, what will I say?
Its hurting me at the thought of hurting him but the longer I leave it the harder it gets? Please help ! I'm begging lol x :(:(:confused::confused::confused::confused: I love him
Well the problem lies where I have met this guy. I've lied about my age.. I didn't intend to it was when I was 16 we met at a holiday camp and I was illegally playing bingo with the family and won 500 odd pound so when this entertainer asked my age my dad said 20 because I have ID, fake obv saying that I am 21 now .
Well me and this entertainer got talking and I thought it'd be best to continue lying about my age for the duration of my hoilday simple because I didn't think we'd go much further after I went home.
Now however we are in a relationship from August 2008. It's really serious and I love him more than anything in the world.. ( by the way you might not think it from reading this but I am really mature for my age because I've had to grow up fast if you get me ) Anyway this guy is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I know its love because of the feelings I have towards him. He says he feels the same way about me and I've even talked about moving over to live with him across the water when we both get the money.
Well he thinks am 21, go to university studying forensic science, I work in a old age care home and in a chip shop.
Reality is I am 17, I don't study at uni, I study forensics at college, I do in fact work both in a nursing home and chip shop in my spare time after college and at weekends.
So I haven't lied about a lot I have been myself and everything me and him have talked about is what we both want...
When He told me earlier today that he has found the perfect engagement ring for me.. reality hit. I would LOVE to MARRY HIM but I can't accept until I have explained to him that I'm 17 and why and how the lie has come about.
I am TERRIFIED that he will leave me, because I REALLY HONESTLY properly no messing around LOVE HIM.
I no I sound like the most terrible of terrible people doing this to him but I need help on how to tell him, what to say? I really don't want to hurt him or for him not to trust me because I haven't lied about anything else! How do I tell him that I'm 17, what will I say?
Its hurting me at the thought of hurting him but the longer I leave it the harder it gets? Please help ! I'm begging lol x :(:(:confused::confused::confused::confused: I love him