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crissy11
Oct 5, 2008, 11:47 PM
My ex boyfriend wants to get back together with me because he said I'm the love of his life but I'm hearing rumors that he has a new girlfriend and that he's getting married to his pregnant ex what should I do he said that its not true.

jsaly
Oct 6, 2008, 04:06 AM
How do you feel about him. Do you love him? Rumors are just gossip and are normally untrue. If you love him and trust him enough the rumors shouldn't worry you. If you are unsure maybe you could look into the truth and do some investergating of your own. The main thing is that your relationship should be open and honest. You treat each other with respect. And always have good communication. If someone loves you, they will always be honest and never hide anything from you. My husband and I have been together for 8 years now. He is my second husband. We tell each other every thing whether it is good or bad. We are far from the perfect couple. But we love each other and always talk about or problems and concerns. I hope this can help you in some way. Good luck!

Romefalls19
Oct 6, 2008, 05:51 AM
How old are you? What were the terms of this relationship and how long have you been broken up?

talaniman
Oct 6, 2008, 06:35 AM
Don't even get involved with this drama, and why listen to someone you don't believe? Why even talk with someone you don't believe?

JBeaucaire
Oct 6, 2008, 08:02 AM
You don't make relationship decisions based on anything people say. Nothing other people say, and more importantly, nothing he says.

Relationship decisions are made solely off reality and observed actions. You can talk to him and talk to friends, but only what you observe yourself to be true can be considered "possibly" real.

Why did you break up? Whatever reason(s) that was, they still exist in most cases. You aren't the love of his life. That's another silly common thing people say that effectively means, "I know we aren't good together, but come back to me anyway so we can make each other miserable some more."

"The love of your life" isn't a dating term or a courting term, it's a title you bestow on someone you have already spent a lifetime sacrificing for and building up and making their life better... for decades.

All he meant is "I miss you and I want you back". That is all it meant. Everything that broke you two up the first time is most likely 100% still true, too.

Since you called this post "Lying Ex", then I can assume you also know not to bother with this.