JuliaK
May 25, 2008, 12:50 AM
Ok so I have a new boyfriend now and am very happy with this guy! He is the most amazing guy I have ever met and I think I am falling in love with him. Ever since we made it official that we are going out I stopped keeping in touch with any exes as I'm a strong believer of karma and would never want to do anything to ruin this relationship.
The problem is one particular ex has started txtng me a lot lately wanting to meet up. It is so annoying because I was completely in love with this guy (went out for a year) but he was a terrible boyfriend and I found it really hard to move on when we broke up. Now that I finally feel like I am moving on and I'm happy he is suddenly back in the picture and I am trying to avoid him as I'm scared of falling into old patterns.. The thing is the last time he asked me to meet up I replyd and said that I'm "busy and maybe another time".. I don't know why but I feel bad about saying this!lol. Even though he always used to be really mean to me I can't help but still care for him. I feel a lot happier when I don't see/talk to him though..
So my question is should I keep in touch with him? I feel rude not to reply if he texts me because I know I will see him around and we had agreed to stay friends.. But in reality I'm not interested in being friends with him as I think it will be too confusing and only distract me from my current relationship in which I'm finally happy after he made me miserable for a year! But I still feel guilty if I'm mean to him and don't know why because after all the stuff he did to me I should hate him but I don't.
Does anyone have on opinion on this situation??
The problem is one particular ex has started txtng me a lot lately wanting to meet up. It is so annoying because I was completely in love with this guy (went out for a year) but he was a terrible boyfriend and I found it really hard to move on when we broke up. Now that I finally feel like I am moving on and I'm happy he is suddenly back in the picture and I am trying to avoid him as I'm scared of falling into old patterns.. The thing is the last time he asked me to meet up I replyd and said that I'm "busy and maybe another time".. I don't know why but I feel bad about saying this!lol. Even though he always used to be really mean to me I can't help but still care for him. I feel a lot happier when I don't see/talk to him though..
So my question is should I keep in touch with him? I feel rude not to reply if he texts me because I know I will see him around and we had agreed to stay friends.. But in reality I'm not interested in being friends with him as I think it will be too confusing and only distract me from my current relationship in which I'm finally happy after he made me miserable for a year! But I still feel guilty if I'm mean to him and don't know why because after all the stuff he did to me I should hate him but I don't.
Does anyone have on opinion on this situation??