I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now, and we were both virgins when we got together because sex with love was important to us. But after a year of having sex, I have never had an orgasm with him. I know how to have one with myself, but I just don't know how to with him. What tricks can we try together to let me have an orgasm?

How old are you hun?

Foreplay is very important. Too be honest it takes lots of relaxation and lots of patience. It will come in time. Many women do not experience orgasms during sex.

I think it is a problem when two young people get together for sex. Studies show that the longer a woman can wait to have sex(she is more physically and emotionally mature), the better off she is in life.

Anyway, a woman has to be in contact with her passions... I think this could be holding her back. She could get in touch with what makes her passionate.

Well I didn't orgasm for a long time from sex. I got my orgasms when my boyfriend would perform oral on me. It takes a while it will happen

Yes it will happen, the time it will happen when the focus is off getting the orgasm and just having fun and being with each other without any expectations.

Bring yourself to orgasm in front of him, it will show him what you like and it can be really sexy for everyone involved ;)

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