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    Dec 6, 2007, 07:44 PM
    How can I have an orgasm with my partner?
    I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now, and we were both virgins when we got together because sex with love was important to us. But after a year of having sex, I have never had an orgasm with him. I know how to have one with myself, but I just don't know how to with him. What tricks can we try together to let me have an orgasm?
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    Dec 6, 2007, 07:46 PM
    How old are you hun?
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    Dec 6, 2007, 08:00 PM
    Foreplay is very important. Too be honest it takes lots of relaxation and lots of patience. It will come in time. Many women do not experience orgasms during sex.
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    Dec 7, 2007, 12:31 PM
    I think it is a problem when two young people get together for sex. Studies show that the longer a woman can wait to have sex(she is more physically and emotionally mature), the better off she is in life.

    Anyway, a woman has to be in contact with her passions... I think this could be holding her back. She could get in touch with what makes her passionate.
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    Dec 7, 2007, 12:57 PM
    Well I didn't orgasm for a long time from sex. I got my orgasms when my boyfriend would perform oral on me. It takes a while it will happen
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    Dec 7, 2007, 01:05 PM
    Yes it will happen, the time it will happen when the focus is off getting the orgasm and just having fun and being with each other without any expectations.
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    Oct 22, 2008, 10:34 PM

    Bring yourself to orgasm in front of him, it will show him what you like and it can be really sexy for everyone involved ;)
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    Oct 23, 2008, 06:05 AM

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