My mom nevers shut up. She repeats everything and reminds me about everything. Also, my dad eats with his mouth open cause he's old and I have to hear it because my computer is near the dining room, actually basically in probably. Also, my big brother laughs upstairs at his anime.. My twin brother never shuts up and does something or says something that causes my mom to talk.

Also, my family cooks a lot, and the smell of Cuban food (I'm used to it and now I find it nausiating.. ) annoys me so. I don't like having to sit around smelling something all day. I feel that the smell might make me fat or something. Even though it won't.. will it?

Sometimes I get so annoyed that my hear beats fast and I.. I don't know. I growl and make my face mad because I'm trying to let my dad know that he's annoying me and.. Just help me deal with this because I can't stop them.

I'm 13 by the way.

Well... smell can't make u fat physically.
Tell your dad to chew with his mouth closed and nag him about it till he does.
Tell your mom she doesn't have to repeat everything.
Anime is can be funny so really nothing u can do but ask your brother to keep it down.
And your mom is supposed to respond when your twin brother does something or says something since he is her son. Right??

You're 13. All 13 year olds get annoyed by their parents. Just grin and bear it!

Sounds like you need your own space...
Do you have your own room where you can put on some headphones and listen to music or something?

Just grim and bear it!

Skell is right on the money -- just grim and bear it!

Sounds like typical teen angst. It will pass, as a teen I hated everything about noise etc. too, yet I was heavily into punk, so isn't that ironic?

When you grow a little more, you will probably not feel so annoyed by these things.

Whoa and I thought my family was weird I'll trade you my fat smelly sister for one of your brothers. I
Always wanted a big or little brother :D

I wasn't really normal so I never got mad at my parents... at any age, but my brother did when he hit puberty.

I enrolled him in lacrosse and kung fu. It got him out of the house 5 - 6 hours a week and by the time he came home, he was so tired that he had no energy to be exhausted.

Have you considered enrolling in any sports or extra curricular activities?

Wow, your just like me. My mom won't shut the up, and it get very annoying. My dad won't stop telling me to do my math HW. Damn it annoying! My mom keeps repeating stuff and believes stupid things, like getting sick is good for you.

Okay this is what you do don't pay attention to them talk to them and don't worry about it.make it is like your not part of it don't worry a lot about it just be clam and when they see that you are not listening to them and they will shut up... :)

I'm worried that all your efforts at advice are falling to dead ears, as the poster never answered back since September of Last Year.

So, just a little reminder, please check the dates of the last post before wasting prescious time. There are others out there respectful enough to at least say thanks, so don't give up on those that respond back.

Have a great weekend all!

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OK at least yoiur family isn't totally wonko, apparently their just loud. Right? Chances are they'll always be loud, and there isn't much you can do, you can ask your mom to cook something different, you can get earplugs but your family is very talkitive.
And another thing you sound like you are worried about your weight right? Well smelling things won't make you fat, and even eating a lot won't make you fat you sound pretty young so, relax about your wheight, no one cares about it but you/

HELLO! Does anyone bother to READ???? The original post was from SEPTEMBER of LAST YEAR and has not answered back...

-breathe. Calm down.
-go read a book outside in the back yard or something. Build a fort that's your own private space
-try out the after school activities.
-invest in headphones

Okay finally someone that gets it!

A lot of these idiots on this site and that have answered this question are adults and have completely forgotten what being a teen is like, lucky for you I'm fourteen and have the same ideal life as you.

Now I'm going to say that you're wrong but trust me having your family cook a lot is awesome to me at least... mostly because my mom is so annoying and stupid and well fat that she is to busy worring about losing wait with her slimfast drinks that I barely get a nice dinner. I mean I would kill to have a mom that would cook! But I agree with you on the fact that you can get nausiated from smelling the same food everyday would make me sick!

Now my mom never shuts up she'll tell us stupid stories about her child her and how things were different from when she was a kid to us being a kid. And when I get mad she always say something stupid like "I never would get mad at my parents." And I realize that were different that way which she doesn't know what it's like to be a teenager now. So if you ever get mad at her 'cause she never stops talking then just walk outside and calm down and yeah she'll be there when you come back just g to a place where you find peaceful and relax, just get away from all the pressure.

Now were different in one way you have two annoying brothers I have an annoying sister, which can sometimes equal your two brothers from the sounds of it. You can't do much about them but fight back. If your oldest brother will watch animes and laugh watch you t.v. shows and laugh loud. If that doesn't work then you are going to have to resort to the peaceful thing. Just listen to music that calms you and that you enjoy. And if you are ever home alone just get on the computer and play the music full blast. That is exactly what I do it makes me feel at ease and I don't have to worry about anybody telling me to turn it down 'cause nobody is home!

Now about our dad's are the same. They just want us to succeed and do our best, but yes that we can get annoyed by the fact that they don't stop worring. And you are his only daughter which will make him more protective and cautious of you. Me on the otherhand I'm not the only daughter my dad has he has my sister too. But I'm the little baby of the famiyl if you must say. And although he doesn't always need to watch out for me I can tell that he doesn't want to lose me to any bad things the world holds. So best thing I can say about our dad's is you just got to love them.

I really hoped this helps you and is you need anything just tell me.

By the descriptions in your post, I would say that everything that annoys you happens when you're sitting on your computer.

Here's an idea, get off the computer, go outside, and start living a life where you don't start at the screen 24/7... that is, except to come back here, xD


PS: Yes, I read the date. However, you need to read the dates of all the people posting with "I have the same problem, ...." If they find this thread, maybe they can find their own answers here instead of starting ANOTHER new thread about the same topic.

This post was in 2007... this is wayyy old. Please don't resurrect old posts. Close the thread, mod?

You need your own room and can you get out of the house more often?
Also maybe try wearing head phones on your computer and listening to music it will drown them out some and they can tap you on the shoulder if they do need your attention.

Again I reply to old post that got resurrected.

I know exactly how you feel my mom NEVER stops repeating herself and then when she tells me to do something segives me like a second to even gudge before I do anything and then starts yelling at me... she gets on my nerves A lot she tore my up just because I accadently started yelling at her and it wasint even that loud.she always thinks I'm yelling at her but when she said I was "yelling" at her it was just probably no more than above a little tinny bit above my normal talking voice.and my god my sister doesn't make it eny better,she sort of has "anger issues" so when ever my mom gets her mad she stops and leave my sister alone but when she gets me mad she keeps going to the point where I break.I keep on telling her to please leave cause I'm reaching my breaking point then she's going to yell at me some more.(like that will help).one of these days she might get me so angry that imma snap and hurt her to the point of where she's almost dead.load forbit that from happening.but I bet you probably 70% chance that I won't care if I end up killing her.im sorry if this is very long to summon it up I know EXACTLY how you feel.