I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 21, we've only been together 3 months (4 on the 25th). For a month and half he's been wanting to get married or at least engaged, I'm too young I tell him but has still saving up for the ring and everything he hopes to ask me on my 18th birthday but I can't tell him that I'm too young because he's so older than me that he can't wait.
So basically one of the many problems is I feel forced obligated to stay with him and every time I mention a time out just a little break he gets really angry at me and goes on a giant rant about us and what he's now going to do after we break up. He over reacts to everything little jokes he takes seriously and gets angry he's always getting annoyed with me. He makes me feel like everything is always my fault of course he never says that but he makes it clear that's what he thinks. I've got depression and so I get really bad some days where I can't really talk or respond very fast or right when he's talking to me which causes him to assume I'm keeping something from him. I've explained to him many times my problems but they mean nothing to him.
I'm only 16 and I want to have fun go out or stay home and play games, I'm a computer lover I love my computer games! But all my hobbies and everything I do he gets annoyed about says there a waste of time and then says that I'd rather play stupid computer and watch anime then spend time with him, which is usually only sex anyway. I don't get to see my friends only at school my weekends are always booked with him I never have any free time apart from when I got to go home after school but I normally don't go home till a few hours after I finish because he comes to my school to see me.
I remember once he came and sat outside my house all night because I'd managed to get some time to see my friends and I had them sleepover. He didn't tell me this till about a month later but it kind of freaked me out. He checks my emails a lot and is always asking me about guys I talk to and if he sees me glance at another guy or girl (I'm bi) he gets all upset and instantly assumes that I looked because I thought they were hot or something. Don't get me wrong I love seeing him I cried the other night because I wasn't able to talk to him for a couple of days (lost my phone). I like meeting up with him but I get scared before and during because I don't want him he get upset over anything I say or do, we fight all the time pretty much every time we meet up thought we're not really fighting it's me listening to him and adding little things to say back but it's like he never hears them or he finds a way to bend my words and the fight continues. Hes threatened a few times that it's either him or death a couple of times, he threatened me telling me i will have no one after him...He's really making me feel trapped I do love him though and I can't stand not being able to talk to him, problem is talking is find with me and meeting up every now and then but unlike him I got other stuff I need/want to do and he doesn't like any of my hobbies so I can't be with him and watch my shows and play my games I don't have any privacy can anyone help I'm really lost and could use some advise?

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Stop seeing this man, if he is sitting outside your house, have your parents call the police.

You are not trapped, just do no go see him any more.

Stop seeing this man, if he is sitting outside your house, have your parents call the police.

You are not trapped, just do no go see him any more.

I forgot to mention he told me him or death a couple of times, he threatened me telling me I will have no one after him

Oh my goodness.... WOW! You came to the right place for help. I know that calling the police is too much for you to do, but this guy is really scary. I believe this one takes the cake for me. I really hope you are not caught up in this relationship too bad because he seems like he is manic, controlling, and will simply ruin your life. You should not EVER fear your boyfriend. I like the fact that you are so very aware of his behaviour in regards to how you have explained his actions. You must see the inevitable outcome of this relationship as a disaster that would only get worse if it were prolonged? I am so sure you are strong enough to be able to know that this is really unusual for a guy to become so aggressive so very early into a relationship.

Threatening death is something that a person tells their parents about. I am so serious... This guy is so very unstable that it is really not a good place for you to be. It seems to me you are already in very deep water with this guy and he needs to be forced away from you. You need a very large escort to hang with you for a while and be careful about being alone. I am absolutely worried for you now Kitanie, I would go right now and have a big sit down with your uncle, mom, dad, brother or even the entire family and work on this one. It is really important to see that this guy is just a phase in your life that you are aware is damaging. My goodness , what if you were to get pregnant by him? That would make him a part of your life forever... And him alone with a baby? I would hope you would say "never." It takes courage to make changes in your life but I think you are in imminent danger. And time is on your side still, maybe you can get an emergency protection order of some sort.

Tell your parents and make them call the police and follow through with the law. No if ands or butts. Do it now!!

WOW! This guy is a Phsycho. I have to agree with Tal here , tell your parents straight away about all this and STAY AWAY from him!!

Please tell your parents. I know you think you do but you don't love this man. Honestly you don't. Someone you love and loves you in return doesn't make you feel like this and doesn't treat you this way.

Please tell your parents. They can help you. If not tell a school teacher / counsellor. You need to get away from this guy immediately. But don't try telling him that. Go to an adult you can trust and will help you.

Please keep us informed!

Please tell your parents. I know you think you do but you dont love this man. Honestly you dont. Someone you love and loves you in return doesnt make you feel like this and doesnt treat you this way.

Please tell your parents. they can help you. If not tell a school teacher / counsellor. You need to get away from this guy immediately. But dont try telling him that. Go to an adult you can trust and will help you.

Please keep us informed!

I can't tell my parents because they love this guy and my dad would go crazy and probably kill him... my dad's not the nicest guy on the block...

I've spoken to my brother about it and he gets the creeps from hearing this stuff. My brothers are going to keep a close eye on him if anything gets worse and knowing them the'r going to be asking how I am and botue verything for the next long time.

Thank you everyone your replies are most helpful, though it's hard for me to act on them... I spoke with my boyfriend about how he's always angry and everything and he got upset again but he's thought about it and now he says he's given up trying to change me so he's just going to try and follow my league I don't think it's going to last but at least I don't really have to worry about anything for a couple of days at the very least *sigh*