FatherNeedingHelp
Sep 5, 2007, 06:21 AM
Hi,
I am in dire need of some help so if you can help please do. Recently I was served with a restraining order which accused me of assault. This assault never occurred. The truth is my wife found out that I had a my space account and went ballistic kicking me out under threat of a restraining order. I left easily and once I was gone, she files a restraining order for assault and harassment. Neither of these occurred but I am still banned from seeing my wife and daughter. She included my daughter on the restraining order even though I have never and would never hurt either my wife or my daughter. In truth, I love them both very much and want nothing more than to reconcile with my family.
My question is do I have any recourse to see my daughter or counteract the restraining order? My wife was unfaithful several times throughout our marriage most recently this past summer. I accepted her back into our home even though she admitted the infidelities because of my daughter. I know have been advised to do nothing and just wait the three weeks until the restraining order date. I miss my daughter so much as she and I were much closer that my wife in all ways and she and my wife did not get along at all.
I just want to see my daughter but cannot ask for interim visitation because of pending charges alleged by my wife. Does a Father have any rights in this situation or must I sit and slowly die due to the lack of contact with the only thing in my life that matters at this point? Can her infidelity be used as a chip to get me visitation with my daughter? I am at my wits' end and am hoping there is some compassionate person out there with some advice which could allow me to at least do something, anything to help in this situation.
Thank you so much in advance and please believe me when I say I am telling the truth and am being unjustly accused for my wife to advance her career goals using the love of my life, my daughter, as a chip.
I am in dire need of some help so if you can help please do. Recently I was served with a restraining order which accused me of assault. This assault never occurred. The truth is my wife found out that I had a my space account and went ballistic kicking me out under threat of a restraining order. I left easily and once I was gone, she files a restraining order for assault and harassment. Neither of these occurred but I am still banned from seeing my wife and daughter. She included my daughter on the restraining order even though I have never and would never hurt either my wife or my daughter. In truth, I love them both very much and want nothing more than to reconcile with my family.
My question is do I have any recourse to see my daughter or counteract the restraining order? My wife was unfaithful several times throughout our marriage most recently this past summer. I accepted her back into our home even though she admitted the infidelities because of my daughter. I know have been advised to do nothing and just wait the three weeks until the restraining order date. I miss my daughter so much as she and I were much closer that my wife in all ways and she and my wife did not get along at all.
I just want to see my daughter but cannot ask for interim visitation because of pending charges alleged by my wife. Does a Father have any rights in this situation or must I sit and slowly die due to the lack of contact with the only thing in my life that matters at this point? Can her infidelity be used as a chip to get me visitation with my daughter? I am at my wits' end and am hoping there is some compassionate person out there with some advice which could allow me to at least do something, anything to help in this situation.
Thank you so much in advance and please believe me when I say I am telling the truth and am being unjustly accused for my wife to advance her career goals using the love of my life, my daughter, as a chip.