Adam84
Aug 10, 2007, 03:46 AM
My name is Adam I'm 23 my girlfriend is 22.
She came over to see me tonight and said she wanted to have a break from our 3 year relationship. Our anniversary was last week and I bought hera beautiful present and everything was fine the relationship has ben great. Al week she's beenover an happy. Anyway she said I need to find myself and be happy on my own. She said she hasn't always been happy lately.
I need some advice and want to know if I reacted in the correct way to get her back. Its amazing we were meant to go to her mims birthday tomorrow in a few days and she was talking about us going last night.
I may have reesponded badly, this is what I said was I right or wrong, by the way I want her back, I still love her lots,
Well she said I think we should have a break and I said " What yourve gotta be kidding, what are you talking about , Ie been nothing but great to you for 3 years and i let you see me whenever you want and im always there for you and you want a break from me! Your the one who always calls every night saying you want o talk before you go to bed!!! There is no break i not a second rate person who you think you can just take a break from if you want to break up then tell me and imm out of your life!! If you think you can dobetter or deserve someone else well get the hell out dont come around my place saying you need a break if you want a break then ypui can have a life long break!!! Ive been great for you and i like you heaps and we could have a great life together but if your unsure and wanna play these stupid games and think about things then thats it!!! I know what i want and im not unsure i dont just treat youlike this i think about your feelings and if i didnt want to be with you i would think about it and then i would completely break it off... If you think you want a break that will only be stringing me along and I dont deserve that and if thats how you wantto treat me youdont deserve a guy like me so get out of my life... You need to think while your with me we are meant to be going to your mums bday and ill tellyou nw if you doint wanna take me there then we are definately over, you obviously dont think enough of me if after three years you can just come her and say break Im better thab that and i can get somone who deserves me and treats me with more respect causze your treating me like a bloody dog!!! And i always look after you..
She then said " I just need to work out what I want:" Isaid well fine you should have worked that out by now if you need a coupkle of days apart to evaluate things then fine but its either on o off not sitting on the fence on a break, cause you either want to try and see how we go or you don't and you lose me from your life cause there's plaenty of single girls who would love a boyfriend like me and want to be in yopur position so if you want to be single and in there position you give me up and that's all...
She said I just need some time ti think about things and work on myself...
Sge then left and we wentdown to he car and before she left I said I l like you a lot but you can't treat me like an idiot I'm not going to chase you but I do want to try with ou and she zaid I still love you but not sure if that's enough...
How did I go my mate said I shouldn't have said anything and just said fine bye!?
She came over to see me tonight and said she wanted to have a break from our 3 year relationship. Our anniversary was last week and I bought hera beautiful present and everything was fine the relationship has ben great. Al week she's beenover an happy. Anyway she said I need to find myself and be happy on my own. She said she hasn't always been happy lately.
I need some advice and want to know if I reacted in the correct way to get her back. Its amazing we were meant to go to her mims birthday tomorrow in a few days and she was talking about us going last night.
I may have reesponded badly, this is what I said was I right or wrong, by the way I want her back, I still love her lots,
Well she said I think we should have a break and I said " What yourve gotta be kidding, what are you talking about , Ie been nothing but great to you for 3 years and i let you see me whenever you want and im always there for you and you want a break from me! Your the one who always calls every night saying you want o talk before you go to bed!!! There is no break i not a second rate person who you think you can just take a break from if you want to break up then tell me and imm out of your life!! If you think you can dobetter or deserve someone else well get the hell out dont come around my place saying you need a break if you want a break then ypui can have a life long break!!! Ive been great for you and i like you heaps and we could have a great life together but if your unsure and wanna play these stupid games and think about things then thats it!!! I know what i want and im not unsure i dont just treat youlike this i think about your feelings and if i didnt want to be with you i would think about it and then i would completely break it off... If you think you want a break that will only be stringing me along and I dont deserve that and if thats how you wantto treat me youdont deserve a guy like me so get out of my life... You need to think while your with me we are meant to be going to your mums bday and ill tellyou nw if you doint wanna take me there then we are definately over, you obviously dont think enough of me if after three years you can just come her and say break Im better thab that and i can get somone who deserves me and treats me with more respect causze your treating me like a bloody dog!!! And i always look after you..
She then said " I just need to work out what I want:" Isaid well fine you should have worked that out by now if you need a coupkle of days apart to evaluate things then fine but its either on o off not sitting on the fence on a break, cause you either want to try and see how we go or you don't and you lose me from your life cause there's plaenty of single girls who would love a boyfriend like me and want to be in yopur position so if you want to be single and in there position you give me up and that's all...
She said I just need some time ti think about things and work on myself...
Sge then left and we wentdown to he car and before she left I said I l like you a lot but you can't treat me like an idiot I'm not going to chase you but I do want to try with ou and she zaid I still love you but not sure if that's enough...
How did I go my mate said I shouldn't have said anything and just said fine bye!?