Anony_mouse
Jan 7, 2012, 07:48 PM
All right.. So my girlfriend and I agreed to "take a break and try again later". She said that we don't talk or laughed much, and that she needs more excitement. She says she needs her space, which I have never had to go through before. She says she "possibly wants to get back together, but not 100% sure we're right for each other"
1. She needs space. I need advice and support to give her that. I've bugged her twice, unfortunately. And I think it's annoyed her.. I have no idea what to do! I'm going crazy, I really need help in this area.
2. Is it bad if she's might be seeing new guys? I have a suspicion that she's hanging out and talking with other guys. We agreed to tell each other if we meet someone, but I'm scared about losing her to another man. Any advice here?
3. How long might it be before she talks to me? And does anyone think we will be together again? I love her like crazy, and I couldn't bear to lose her. I'm willing to wait, I just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. In the mean time, what should I do to keep busy and stay sane while giving her space?
Thanks for all your answers. I am so lost as this is my first serious girlfriend, and I've never had to experience "taking a break", so I could really use some pointers
1. She needs space. I need advice and support to give her that. I've bugged her twice, unfortunately. And I think it's annoyed her.. I have no idea what to do! I'm going crazy, I really need help in this area.
2. Is it bad if she's might be seeing new guys? I have a suspicion that she's hanging out and talking with other guys. We agreed to tell each other if we meet someone, but I'm scared about losing her to another man. Any advice here?
3. How long might it be before she talks to me? And does anyone think we will be together again? I love her like crazy, and I couldn't bear to lose her. I'm willing to wait, I just want to make sure I'm not wasting my time. In the mean time, what should I do to keep busy and stay sane while giving her space?
Thanks for all your answers. I am so lost as this is my first serious girlfriend, and I've never had to experience "taking a break", so I could really use some pointers