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lil_sams2
Oct 23, 2007, 02:23 PM
Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up about 4 months ago and a couple weeks after the breakup he told me that he was cheating and he has been with some girl for about a year. Then when we got to school he dated some new girl and then broke up with her about 2 weeks later. I miss him and want to make it right and start over. Should I try to go out with him again and start over or should I forget about him? Also if I should get back with him ( how do I get back with him)?

peggyhill
Oct 23, 2007, 02:46 PM
It sounds like this guy has some commitment issues. If it were me, I wouldn't give him another chance. Not only did he cheat on you and break you trust, but it sounds like he broke up with the other girl quickly too. It is normal to miss him and the good times you had together, but don't let being lonely cloud your judgement. This guy was dishonest with you. You have no reason to believe that he has changed. I would let it go. Don't waste your time or your emotions on someone who doesn't deserve it. You might miss out on a chance for a great relationship with someone else if you are too busy pinning away for him. Look for other people who interest you- ones who haven't cheated on people in the past. It is better to be single than to waste your time with someone who doesn't deserve you. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't tie yourself down with a loser! I hope this helps! Also, if he broke up with you and hasn't said anything about getting back together, asking him to go out with you again may make you look clingy, especially since he didn't treat you well. You deserve better! Good luck!

Homegirl 50
Oct 23, 2007, 04:13 PM
Why would you even want him back?
He cheated on you for a year, then dated someone else for a short time and left her, what about this guy is attractive or promising?
Please don't be one of those girls who are so desperate they will just let a loser walk all over them just to have a boyfriend. There are plenty of nice guys out there, this one is not one of them.

Jiser
Oct 23, 2007, 04:36 PM
Your still at school. Relationships come and go when your young. It's a fact of life. Run a mile, he seems like a total waste of space.

Homegirl 50
Oct 23, 2007, 04:46 PM
How do you get back with him? Roll over and tell him you'll be his fool and doormat. This is what guys like that want, and I know you are better and deserve better treatment that that.