al8dan
Oct 10, 2005, 10:19 AM
Hi all I am new here and this is my first Post.
Problem is:
My daughter (14) came to me and said she saw some nasty movies on my hubby's laptop. She was wanting to play games on it and listen to music. Instead she saw some "barely legal" teen porn.. of girls on a school bus or a teacher "doing" some pupils to name only a couple.
I went to look and deleted 15 such movies.
5 days later I went back to see if he noticed I had deleted them ( I deleted them and did not tell him to see if he would say anything). Not only did he not tell me... he downloaded more... so I did some digging. I looked in his document file and found he had been looking at a photo of my daughter . She and her friend had a sleep over during the summer and took photos they thought were glamorus. It was of her on the sofa fully clothed but in a moderately suggestive pose.
I also looked in his e-mail (he has auto-fill on his passwords... OOOPS! ) and found not only has he been downloading teen porn he has also been paying for it... which we don't have money for and he recently basted me for getting a family subscription to cable. He also downloaded more movies and I found links to member sites which were not very nice. Now I KNOW the girls are maybe not really teens... or if they are they are "Legal" but the circumstances of them does not sit right with me.
I am not a prude and do sometimes watch TV movies about sex and stuff and wouldn't hold it against him really... but the fact is it is basically Teens he is wanting to see and not grown women. He is 43.
Should I confront him on this or am I over reacting?
I have kind of made myself sick thinking about what to do... I am very shy and hate confrontations... but I find myself in a position where I think I should say something but don't know how to go about it in a strong way. I feel he could say something sarcastic and I would back down and just let it get the better of me.
He also goes about spouting Christian values and while I am no saint I at least don't pretend to be at the right hand of Jesus and then go paying $29.95 a month for tennie bopper porno...
AND then have the Audacity to complain when someone else buy something for the family for $3.00 more.
Thanks
Problem is:
My daughter (14) came to me and said she saw some nasty movies on my hubby's laptop. She was wanting to play games on it and listen to music. Instead she saw some "barely legal" teen porn.. of girls on a school bus or a teacher "doing" some pupils to name only a couple.
I went to look and deleted 15 such movies.
5 days later I went back to see if he noticed I had deleted them ( I deleted them and did not tell him to see if he would say anything). Not only did he not tell me... he downloaded more... so I did some digging. I looked in his document file and found he had been looking at a photo of my daughter . She and her friend had a sleep over during the summer and took photos they thought were glamorus. It was of her on the sofa fully clothed but in a moderately suggestive pose.
I also looked in his e-mail (he has auto-fill on his passwords... OOOPS! ) and found not only has he been downloading teen porn he has also been paying for it... which we don't have money for and he recently basted me for getting a family subscription to cable. He also downloaded more movies and I found links to member sites which were not very nice. Now I KNOW the girls are maybe not really teens... or if they are they are "Legal" but the circumstances of them does not sit right with me.
I am not a prude and do sometimes watch TV movies about sex and stuff and wouldn't hold it against him really... but the fact is it is basically Teens he is wanting to see and not grown women. He is 43.
Should I confront him on this or am I over reacting?
I have kind of made myself sick thinking about what to do... I am very shy and hate confrontations... but I find myself in a position where I think I should say something but don't know how to go about it in a strong way. I feel he could say something sarcastic and I would back down and just let it get the better of me.
He also goes about spouting Christian values and while I am no saint I at least don't pretend to be at the right hand of Jesus and then go paying $29.95 a month for tennie bopper porno...
AND then have the Audacity to complain when someone else buy something for the family for $3.00 more.
Thanks