My wife never makes the first move in bed. Please tell me that woman are very emotional and they have to be in the mood upstairs unlike us men. I just have no confidence to even try anymore. Its like a job and too much work now. I just think if I really satisfied her she would want it more. She says that I do. Keep in mind she never does turn me down if I try. I just wish she was I guess just more sexy and horny more. Like when we were in high school you know.