I am 25 yrs old and have been with my 29yr old boyfriend for 6 years. Our sex life has never been great but he used to initiate sex a lot. We have got a mortgage together and don't have sex at all now. I have found porn on his computer and have discussed it with him, I tried to explain how it made me feel knowing he is looking at these images but he can't stand to be close to me. In every other way our relationship is good. We have only ever slept with each other and I know he is not cheating on me nor is he gay. I don't know what to do, I feel so desperate for his attention, but when I bring it up we end up arguing and he tells me that he loves me but isn't very sexual (I know he is I've seen the type of porn he looks at). He says if I bring it up he feels under pressure but if I don't bring it up nothing happens, and I just bottle it up and feel unattractive, needy and frustrated. I love him and don't want to leave him but I don't know what to do, whenever it has almost come to breaking up he tells me that what we have is more important than splitting up over this. Please someone help me?