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    SarahChow Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 12, 2014, 04:12 AM
    Why can't my boyfriend ejaculate after the second time?
    My boyfriend and I have sex regularly and after the second time he ejaculates he can't ejaculate again. He will have an erection for +2 hours but won't be able to ejaculate. Is this normal or is something wrong with him?
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    Aug 12, 2014, 05:35 AM
    How old are you both?
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    SarahChow Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 12, 2014, 06:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    How old are you both?
    We are both 21 years old
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    Aug 12, 2014, 06:06 AM
    Consider the icemaker iin your refrigerator... empty it out all at once... can you do back in and have a lot of ice an hour later? Nope.. it takes time.
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    CravenMorhead Posts: 4,532, Reputation: 1065
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    Aug 12, 2014, 06:08 AM
    Every person is unique in their sexual ability. I am 33 years old, and I have troubles ejaculating the second time, let alone the third. What I have found is that if I don't become erect on my own, without manual stimulation, than the chances of me ejaculating a second time is low. I will go for ages, until both my wife and myself are rubbed raw, but I won't ejaculate. It isn't a matter of lack of feeling or lack of interest but a physical/mental constraint. I don't think it is really anything to worry about to be honest. Maybe give it a little more time between encounters. Have a little more foreplay. I am assuming encounter one and two are back to back, so to speak.

    Regardless, don't worry about it.
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    Aug 12, 2014, 07:40 AM
    He sounds normal, and healthy.
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    Sep 11, 2014, 06:59 AM
    When my wife (still getting used to saying wife, we just got married Saturday) and I have a long session, I can usually ejaculate a little the second time, but sometimes, if we go three, I get the sensation of orgasm but very little ejaculate. Maybe that's just me, but it seems your boyfriend has the same issue.
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    Sep 11, 2014, 07:02 AM
    What problem?. you haven't been at this sex thing very long at all if you think there is a problem.
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    Sep 12, 2014, 04:28 PM
    I'm sorry to tell you that you have to find something else to worry about. He is perfectly normal.

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