Been married 20 years... ups and downs... but a long time ago I met my soulmate. We've tried to stay away from each other, but we always find a way to reconnect. I love my spouse but haven't been "in love" FOR A long time. I tried to tell him that I didn't love him the way I should and he just thinks I'm going through a tough time right now. How do I break it to him that life is short and we should move on? I want him to be happy and find someone that will love him the way he's meant to be loved. I truly don't want to hurt him, but, recently I've realized, after losing a young loved one that life is short and I want to move on to be the person I've wanted to be for so long.
Bottom line... how do I get out without hurting him.