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    Sep 30, 2016, 03:56 PM
    The things men do during sex
    I have never seen such thing but a friend during a campfire conversation said a guy she is seeing she noticed while giving oral he had black rubber band or some kind of stretchy thing at bottom of his penis. She's never experienced that before.

    Then during the act he said he wanted her to fall in love with his penis and look in his face and tell him she loves it.

    Is this just all sex talk and no one understands the black stretchy band.

    Help please!
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    Sep 30, 2016, 05:50 PM
    The black band is to enhance the sexual experience.
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    Sep 30, 2016, 06:16 PM
    Does that mean there's a problem or what? Why he wabt her fall in love with his thing?
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    Sep 30, 2016, 06:37 PM
    It is one of the 1000s of sex toys sold. It is suppose to make a man last longer, and perhaps be slightly harder and larger. (Although I don't think there is much to it.)

    And they come in all colors. They have a heavy plastic version with a vibrator built in.

    Men with no problems buy and use all types of toys.
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    Sep 30, 2016, 07:05 PM
    Oh OK I never heard of ilt.they want to go all night.
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    It is one of the 1000s of sex toys sold. It is suppose to make a man last longer, and perhaps be slightly harder and larger. (Although I don't think there is much to it.)

    And they come in all colors. They have a heavy plastic version with a vibrator built in.

    Men with no problems buy and use all types of toys.
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    Sep 30, 2016, 07:29 PM
    What about falling in love with it
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    Oct 1, 2016, 05:52 AM
    It sounds more like he wanted her to fall in "love" or enjoy giving oral sex. It sounds like sex talk, somewhat stupid sex talk but meaning nothing more than he really likes oral sex and hopes she does it often.
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    Oct 1, 2016, 08:26 AM
    No they were actuallt having sex when he said that.


    She just discovered band doing oral but they were dexing too
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    Oct 1, 2016, 03:28 PM
    still go with just pillow talk, I would normally put little value in things said during sex, esp when it is very early in a relationship.
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    Oct 2, 2016, 02:04 PM
    I think they've known each other for a while.Its not new


    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    still go with just pillow talk, I would normally put little value in things said during sex, esp when it is very early in a relationship.
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    Oct 2, 2016, 03:03 PM
    No telling what a couple can come up with in the privacy of their own bedroom, or what toys or props they can use. The creative possibilities are truly unlimited.
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    Oct 3, 2016, 08:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by lisa1471 View Post
    I have never seen such thing but a friend during a campfire conversation said a guy she is seeing she noticed while giving oral he had black rubber band or some kind of stretchy thing at bottom of his penis. She's never experienced that before.

    Then during the act he said he wanted her to fall in love with his penis and look in his face and tell him she loves it.

    Is this just all sex talk and no one understands the black stretchy band.

    Help please!
    That is called a cock ring. (I hope that won't get censored.) It is used to play around with the blood flow into the penis. It can be fun and is rather common. IT is used to extend the sexual encounter, but the usefullness of that is a subject of debate.

    As for the rest, that is dirty talk during sex. I don't know why she is telling you. It is him trying to be sexy while she is orally pleasuring him. It is nothing more then that to be honest.

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