[Kirstypie]

I have never had an orgasm through penetration alone. I want one! I can orgasm just fine through clitoral stimulation, and I use a little bullet to get me there when I have sex with my husband. But I feel like I'm the one giving me the orgasm, not him. We've tried various positions that provide friction for the clitoris while he's thrusting but I don't feel that will do the trick. I don't get nearly enough friction from his pelvic bone to give me an orgasm. What else can we try?

Once when I was younger I almost felt like I could orgasm from a guys finger, he was doing a "come here" kind of movement. It was unreal, but that only happened once and I've never felt anything like that again. But I feel there's potential in there!

[hellocat12]

I'm the same.. its very common in women to be incapable to reach climax through penetration alone. As much as it sucks. Try a position where your husband can put the bullet where you like it while penetrating. You will be more satisfied that he did it, and so will he. ;)

[Wondergirl]

Try different positions. At the library, there are two books -- Joy of Sex and More Joy of Sex (612.6). Page through them for ideas.

[Synnen]

MOST women cannot orgasm through penetration alone. The nerves are just not in the right places for that to happen.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, normally again"most"women will not orgasm though penetration, you can try by having a couple organsm before you start penetration and see if that helps.

Also there make a penis ring that vibrates and has various shapes to help contact that may help.