[mainlandkid]

First timer here

Well anyway I've got a problem... and it has to do with this girl

Let me start from the beginning... when summer was coming to an end one of my mom's friends told me that her friend and family was moving up. Well I've seen them before and they had a girl about my age and was going in to the 9th grade (im in 10th). I saw her before and when they moved up I started to crush on her... so one day we were just talking and I told her about me liking her... she asked why and I told her... well a few days later she told me that she liked me too... but that day she told me that was the day that I was going to Shlitherbaun. So over the last weekend of summer we texted each other about stuff... when I texted her one time I dropped the word baby.. and she taught it was sweet... well I used that word a few times and then on the last day of summer she told me that she just wants us to be friends... it crushed me on the first day of school... to make matters worse is that family problems arose... well back on track... so I kept on calling her and she wouldn't pick up... I sent her e-mails.. no response... then I just gave up (called her for one week). I know I creeped her out but I just wanted to solve this sitituation... I guess I rushed it... so after that I stopped and kind of moved on with my life... then one day her dad needed a truck to get a bed from a place... since my dad has like 2 trucks... well just when I was about to bail on all of this I saw her and... feeling arose again... a few days later her birthday... I got her a gift and all she said was thanks... so now I'm trying to move but these feelings... I want to get rid of them but they just won't leave... but then my mind gets into a frienzy when I think about this mess... I know I should just leave it behind cause it was nothing special but its like a tug a war in my head. Half wants me to move on but the other half says I should start something... so my question is do I have a shot or should I just move on? Because it has been bugging me for the past days and its making me restless

Oh and by the way the last time I called her was like 2 weeks ago...

[bloxingham]

This is hard.. I would just say try and find someone else. The feelings probably will come back but just try and hide them unless she tells you otherwise. I don't know if that is the best advice, but hey, its an opinion. Good luck!

[myadvice4you]

Hi, I can empathize what you are going through. It sucks. However I must tell you
When a girl (or guy) says they just want to be friends, they usually mean it. Quit trying to contact her via email, text or phone. If she really is interested, you will know. But, from what you've described it sounds like your efforts are going unnoticed. Stop wasting your time on someone that really isn't into you. Find another girl who will appreciate you.

[cameron1331]

You just need to leave her alone and you can not change herself and you need to apologize for calling her like that . That usually scares people and just try to control your actins

[Homegirl 50]

Just leave her alone. Don't even call her to apologize. Leave her alone

[stonewilder]

Yup, just move on.

[friend4u178]

Sorry but I would definitely just let it go , she has made it quite clear she is not really interested anymore.

[mainlandkid]

Yep you guys are all right... I should just move on... sitting down and thinking about this gets me nowhere... if all of this didn't happen I probably would do better in school and focus more on sports... so yea thanks for those who answer my question

[friend4u178]

Good lad , concentrate on your school stuff , far more important!