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jawad_babar · Dec 23, 2005, 12:15 AM

Hi,
I am married and really love sex with my wife. I have a small problem. When we are finished for once or twice at night I still want more more more….but my thing doesn’t erect. What I have to do?
Should I go for erection medicine? I think this is not for my age. I am 30 years old.
Please advise.
Thanks.

nymphetamine · Dec 23, 2005, 10:54 AM

You should talk to your doctor for a check up and make sure its not being caused by something and then have him see if he cans prescribe something that is safe and works. Do not worry that you are such a young age. This problem does not just happen to older men. You might want to stay away from viagra because they are being sued right now. A friend of mine he is only 32 and he says that he can not breath after he used the viagra.

talaniman · Dec 23, 2005, 04:58 PM

What does your wife say?:cool:

jawad_babar · Dec 23, 2005, 09:32 PM

She is satisfied from me... but I want more.

orange · Dec 23, 2005, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by jawad_babar

she is satisfied from me...but i want more.

I think what talaniman is asking you is... does your wife want more sex? If she's happy and you've already done it twice that night shouldn't that be good enough? I mean, you could try doing it several nights a week, if you want to do it more often. I wouldn't take viagra or any other drug if you are only 30.

Fr_Chuck · Dec 23, 2005, 09:41 PM

Once or twice every night ( Wish I could remember those days)

Well there are many things, one is stress, changes in home life, changes in jobs that all effect performance.

Is this normal from previous, or has performace recently gotten worst.

Most of the real medicines that help this are prescription, so you will and should see your doctor before using anything.

talaniman · Dec 23, 2005, 10:08 PM

If your wife is satisfied and you can't get it up, its time for a nap!My question was what does your wife say, does she want more,more.If not, where do you think your going to get that more from.Just relax and let the sweat dry and see how you both feel in an hour.:cool:

Fr_Chuck · Dec 23, 2005, 10:14 PM

And of course wait another 30 years and then you have to rest that hour just to remember when these good ole days

And never forget there is so much more to making love than just the sex part, the closeness, the touching the tenderness and even the bedtime chatting.

fredg · Dec 24, 2005, 07:11 AM

Hi,
At 63 yrs old, I can still remember the "good ole days" when twice a night was normal! But, not now...
At 30, I would follow the advice already given, and talk with a doctor, if you wish to try for more than twice in one night.
There are medications, don't know how effective, but please talk with a doctor before you start taking any.
Personally, I would be very happy with once a night, every night!
As another said, the sex act itself isn't as important, sometimes, as knowing you love each other, holding each other, and just being in each others' arms!

nymphetamine · Dec 24, 2005, 07:26 AM

There is no harm in someone of his age taking something to help. My friend is only 32 and his doctor says its okay. Just stay away from viagra. Now I understand the wife is pleased but as he says he wants more. He has needs to you know not just the wife and you can't do certain things when your thing won't stand up. I understand. Im not a dude but I definitely get it.

jawad_babar · Dec 25, 2005, 10:11 PM

Thanks for the advices, I really appreciate it.

nymphetamine · Dec 25, 2005, 10:31 PM

You are welcome, dearie. Good luck to you and your lady. :D

talaniman · Dec 26, 2005, 07:06 AM

AT 32 and you can have sex twice a night and still want more.hats off to you.However if you can not become aroused again then I would say your body is satisfied but your mind isn't.Have a long honest talk with your wife and see if the two of you can resolve it.Stay away from any pills though unless you talk to a doctor.Sex is more than just a push-up exercise though,as the brain is a organ for pleasure also and sometimes longer foreplay sessions helps a lot,:cool: