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Parwhore · Nov 6, 2007, 02:31 PM

Im 19 and my boyfriends 23
I'm not meaning to be funny or sarcastic or anything atall but he's not exactly tiny if that makes sense when it comes to the bedroom ;) and he's my first sexual partner
And it really hurts even if he takes it slowly
It doesn't hurt as much after about 5 minutes but the first 5 minutes are real uncomfortabl
Any ideas on what I can do to make this a better fulfilled experience?
I Want To Really Enjoy It
Please Comment Back To Anyone Who Reads his
I Need Help :(
Xxxxxxx

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2007, 04:12 PM

Where was the point that there was foreplay? I think you may not be ready for the penetration yet-you need extra time, he needs to help you with this perhaps. Cheers

statictable · Nov 6, 2007, 05:22 PM

Try the 10W-30 Full Synthetic (Mobile.) Great stuff and there's little if any smoke and you don't have to change it as often as a petroleum based product. Going off road? Try Quaker State's Turbo/4x4 Synthetic Blend; reduces heat and won't break down under extreme loads. Yes, these will do the trick and that's a gar-N-tee.

Skell · Nov 6, 2007, 05:54 PM

Originally Posted by statictable

Try the 10W-30 Full Synthetic (Mobile.) Great stuff and there's little if any smoke and you don't have to change it as often as a petroleum based product. Going off road? Try Quaker State's Turbo/4x4 Synthetic Blend; reduces heat and won't break down under extreme loads. Yes, these will do the trick and that's a gar-N-tee.

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To the OP I agree with Xrayman that I feel some more foreplay may be needed!

stonewilder · Nov 6, 2007, 06:01 PM

I had this problem once. I tried everything I could think of but nothing worked. He thought my screams of pain was a hint to ram a little harder. I finally fixed the problem... I stopped seeing him.

Xrayman · Nov 6, 2007, 07:11 PM

Originally Posted by stonewilder

I had this problem once. I tried everything I could think of but nothing worked. He thought my screams of pain was a hint to ram a little harder. I finally fixed the problem....I stopped seeing him.

OUCH (from both points of view!):eek: ;)

Cheers.

letmetellu · Nov 6, 2007, 07:17 PM

In a case like this size does not really make a difference unless you hyman has not completely been broken. If this is the case you might need to go to a Dr. and have him do a little snip of your hyman to open up the vagina completely.
If that is not the case then I think it is just a case of not enough foreplay or your juices just do not start to flow ad he needs to spend more time with you in foreplay. If you are both into it oral sex is one of the best was to prepare a girl for sex and once she is prepared the size of the penis will not matter as far as the entry is concerned but if he is really hugh then he should take it easy for some time to give you time to adapt.

hollylovesbrandon · Nov 7, 2007, 01:45 PM

Well, I have the same problem I have been with my husband for five years... sex with the same guy, only guy, for five years... and to this day the first few minutes still hurt. I just live through it. But he knows that and he takes his time until I tell him it doesn't hurt. He's very big around... not necessarily long... that might be the problem. I literally have to tear apart every time.

sdc719 · Nov 9, 2007, 09:51 PM

Have you tried some of that KY tough massage. Not only can you guys use it to get a little more fore play and to get your juices flowing but you can enhance your juices more and make a slip and slip for his u know what! Thus easing the pain.