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firediva87 · Jul 24, 2007, 04:56 PM

If I guy spends all his time pleasuring you and even goes down on you for about an hour just because he wants you to orgasm and expects nothing in return does that mean he likes you?

GlindaofOz · Jul 24, 2007, 04:57 PM

It could. One can never know why someone does what they do. However, you shouldn't let someone go down on you unless you are in a relationship.

Grayfox · Jul 24, 2007, 07:30 PM

Ehh, sexual favors really shouldn't be allowed to depict whether one has feelings for another as the two (marriage and serious relationships aside) rarely have to do with one another nowadays. Many would say actions speak louder than words, but in this case you should allow other things he does with you and not with you to tell you about his feelings. Honestly I'm kind of surprised that you would let someone participate with you in oral sex without knowing if they at least are interested in you... that can be potentially damaging in a lot of ways. Please be careful.

susiechat · Jul 24, 2007, 07:34 PM

Originally Posted by firediva87

If i guy spends all his time pleasuring you and even goes down on you for about an hour just because he wants you to orgasm and expects nothing in return does that mean he likes you?

You definitely need to be in a really serious relationship for his face to be in that part of you... but for 1 hour?? Things should be rubbed raw by then unless he has the problem and he is trying to get off on his own while he is doing that to u. I would never let a guy stay down there that long. I would want more as in... put it in... so maybe he has a dysfunction that he doesn't want to acknowledge to you. You need to ask questions and help him

letmetellu · Jul 24, 2007, 07:42 PM

To me this sounds like a couple of very young people and he has read a lot of magazines.
It sounds nothing like love to me... but that was not the word she used, she said does that mean he likes me?. I think he only has sex on his mind and don't know what or how to do it.

susiechat · Jul 24, 2007, 08:43 PM

Well to answer the reply before that... well that's what he is chewin on.

susiechat · Jul 24, 2007, 08:47 PM

And in fact the more I read the question over and the other replies... he either likes you a lot and doesn't know what else to do in which case why did you let him go there with so little knowledge or else he has a problem and he is down there trying to fix it without telling you. Does it mean he likes you? Mmmmmmmmm Get him out of there and fast.

smoothy · Jul 25, 2007, 06:49 AM

From a guys perspective... if I was single I could enjoy going down on a good looking woman even if I barely knew her. Because I like going down on women orally.

If you need to know if he really likes you then you need to look at other actions that don't involve sex.

LearningAsIGo · Jul 25, 2007, 10:56 AM

Does it mean he likes you?

It means he wanted in your pants.
Don't mistake oral sex for a relationship or a way to get into a relationship.

Canada_Sweety · Jul 25, 2007, 10:59 AM

.......how old are you?
Oral sex has nothing to do with someone liking someone... it has to do with getting some pleasure and fooling around. Please do not base wether someone likes you or not upon oral sex.

Nosnosna · Jul 25, 2007, 11:19 AM

There is no way to know how he feels based on a single sexual experience. I've had sexual experiences that weren't based on anything beyond arousal, and never turned into anything after the fact.

It's entirely possible that his preferred sexual act is going down on a girl, and that this is all he needs to be satisfied. I know that I've had encounters where that was enough for me.

There's nothing wrong with him based on what you've said... for people to imply otherwise is to jump to unwarranted conclusions. He was certainly interested in sex, though, otherwise he wouldn't have had a sexual encounter with you. To know anything beyond that, you'll need to talk to him.

kp2171 · Jul 25, 2007, 12:32 PM

Uh, yeah... generally speaking, oral sex just might be a positive indicator of potential "like".

Why don't you, the next time he's being selfless, tap him on the head and ask him if he likes you. Guys like to talk about feelings at moments like that.