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    Jun 24, 2007, 05:16 AM
    My Man is off sex
    I have found this wonderful man , and we live in different parts of the world , but I fly over every weekend, he also has a terminal illness which I am told does not affect his sexual interest.

    He has recently gone off sex completely and I just don't know what to do,I have never faced this situation before. He has told me not to worry that it will come back shortly it has been over two weeks and really I am concerned that it could be that he is off me,


    Any suggestions?


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    Jun 24, 2007, 05:22 AM
    I would imagine its hard to feel sexy when you know your dying. I don't think you should take it personally, but be supportive and understanding.
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    Jun 24, 2007, 03:15 PM
    Hello.

    Im not sure how anyone could say a terminal Illness would not affect a persons sexuality. Making Love is giving of yourself and anyone that has been sick knows there are times you don't feel like sex or anything for that matter. Mental I'm sure he is having his ups and downs and this will only be the start. I don't know what his problem is but I'm sure he will feel less and less like Love Making as his time gets closer to the end.

    You might be in for a long ride, If not making Love for 2 weeks is upsetting you what are you going to do when he goes through his down points where he tells you he doesn't want you around. This will happen and does with anyone dealing with problems the size of his.

    Good Luck
    Dennis777
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